@jordy.anti: Avoidants are the villains but anxious mfs are sympathy farming on tiktok over a very normal scenario… girl anyway #jordyanti

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herbie_.x
Herbie :
“It literally takes two seco-“ LEAVE ME ALONE
2026-10-05 15:43:25
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nightwolf032
Salem XoXo👻💋 :
It’s kinda uncomfortable and scary how so many people want there partners lives to revolve around them and their needs.
2026-10-05 03:26:40
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missmartianirll
missmartianirl :
anxious attachments won the app unfortunately
2026-10-05 16:00:40
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shxrk_lick
sharklicky :
Tbey wanna call avoidants selfish and villains and yet they're the ones who can't let their partners be alone for 12 hours because of their own insecurity. Make it make sense..
2026-10-05 11:19:21
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tlt.awhirl
eren★ :
omg the “i’m at work” one😭 dawg i will text u on my break bc i physically cannot respond rn
2026-10-05 02:27:12
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aobaboypusy
towa ★彡 :
the amount that people have romanticized codependency is absolutely insane to me.
2026-10-05 15:47:10
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tumbledseaglass
🐚🫧𝔰𝔞𝔭𝔭𝔥𝔦𝔯𝔢──⃝─⃝⃝⃝⃝── :
i genuinely saw someone post a screenshot of their friend calling a guy avoidant and distant because he wasn’t talking to her as much since his MOM DIED
2026-10-05 03:49:00
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willemscream
mimi ♉️ :
“It’s minimal effort!! It only takes 2 seconds!!” Why do yall feel so entitled to someone else’s time and energy to the point they can’t put you on hold for 2 seconds????
2026-10-05 10:03:04
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monroe727
♡Nada♡ :
The so called " yearners" when you try to instill boundaries and tell them you are still a person outside of the relationship
2026-10-05 14:44:22
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cannonballgrass323
cannonballgrass323 :
“You should text someone that you’re busy” If I’m not texting, can’t you assume I’m busy?? Like hello?? I’m in school, employed, and have hobbies 😭
2026-10-05 23:28:57
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cici_xoxo
cecilie :
i commented something like that… they weren’t happy
2026-10-06 00:14:46
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xarn1e
0_o :
No cause anxious attachment is so normalized (as a big former anxious attachment) people demonize avoidents and don’t get me wrong they can be toxic sometimes but anxious people expect you to throw you life away because they would do it for you. They want to be your whole world being they don’t have a life outside of you. I promise if you had one you wouldn’t notice as much. The biggest thing that helps is learning to be okay with being bored and learning how to be alone with yourself. That’s why I don’t like the whole “24 hours without talking to your partner” debate because sure you shouldn’t actively ignore your partner and communicate your neef for alone time and space. But your would shouod not fall apart if they don’t text you. Regardless of how long. Even if you want your partner to talk to you every day you should still be able to function if they don’t. Fix ur nervous system. Have a life outside ur partner. Get a hobby.
2026-10-05 04:45:04
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taz1392
Taz :
the internet has given us too much access (and entitlement to that access) of people 🫩
2026-10-05 07:18:23
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staceywatson6726
Blue Arts Entertainment. :
Ppl feel so obligated to another person time it is ridiculous 😭
2026-10-05 20:59:19
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ded_pan
Ded Pan :
Why do I have to text to say I’m too busy to text? That defeats the purpose. If I don’t respond right away, that means I’m busy!
2026-10-05 20:13:10
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radioisdead.lol
ೃ࿔ alice • ethel lover໒꒱ིྀ༝⁺ :
like no love is not measured by amounts of text
2026-10-05 17:06:25
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shslfangirl
Time for a little Rebellion :
And if it’s an actual emergency CALL ME
2026-10-05 14:02:55
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rainsinspain
rainsinspain :
I fundamentally disagree with people thinking they have 24/7 access to me and that I owe an explanation for not texting if I don't feel like it. "Anxious attachment" and it's just someone manipulative, codependent, and clingy. I won't put up with it.
2026-10-05 15:04:57
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kadeanselart
Kade Ansel :
Yeah it takes two seconds, but then they reply, and it’s two more seconds, and then there’s another reply, while I’m trying to FOCUS
2026-10-05 16:28:04
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nia_knows_best
Nia 🦋Janae :
Idk if it’s a neurodivergent thing, but ppl don’t realize how breaking focus can really mess with overall task completion
2026-10-05 02:26:01
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o_eksapodw
val :
"if they wanted to they would" well i don't want to
2026-10-06 21:53:18
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strbrryappls
strawberryapplesauce :
Can we please go back to snail mail I can’t stand being reachable 24/7
2026-10-05 17:35:20
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londynmy
londyn :
half the people on this app are anxiously attached individuals
2026-10-05 05:56:13
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jasonastr0
Jason★Astro :
Therapy speak is becoming so mainstream that some people are just calling others avoidant and that person has a healthy attachment style.
2026-10-05 14:04:00
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livsu3
LS13733 :
I saw this video where girl said she doesn’t have notifications turned on because she decides when she looks at her phone, not whoever is reaching out. Changed my brain chemistry.
2026-10-05 15:08:44
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