and my mother wasn’t picky enough so that adds more pressure
2026-10-05 04:00:19
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aoaoa :
Marriage is forever, so if you choose the wrong husband, you will be miserable forever, right?
2026-10-05 04:47:12
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Zahraa :
I have such high standards apparently one of my ex-friends said no man is alive who has them, and since it's impossible to time travel to the past, I won't ever find a man. Well.... guess manners and basic chivalry, respect and loyalty are things of the past. good humour too.
2026-10-06 09:18:19
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artea :
real, bringing a man into your peace is a huge risk. stay picky
2026-10-05 03:34:29
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Quilt :
My cousin told me to choose wisely. She has a husband that chased after her and chose her over and over again, no matter what happened between them. Here she is living in a stress free environment with a wonderful daughter.
2026-10-06 00:21:14
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Manon (zaaddonorgezocht) :
I am so picky I Will never live with a man. Got a daughter via a sperm donor (who she knows as her father) and now me and my daughter live in our appartment without a man who can hurt us. That’s how picky women should be ❤️
2026-10-05 05:01:37
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sawyerTra :
my dad had to meet both my moms parents and brothers before he could even take her out to get to know each other. if my future man doesn't go through that much effort, i dont want it.
2026-10-06 03:55:56
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HateThis :
I can be unhappy alone, if I need to change my life for someone, they better make me happy
2026-10-05 05:07:56
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Heartsmile23 :
If I pick wrong, I put my life in danger. If I pick wrong, I put my future kids in danger. Drop my standards?… yeah, no thank you.
2026-10-06 01:22:50
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nah :
theres a lot of "my" and not enough "our"
2026-10-05 21:59:56
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Miss Dilla :
and then when the husband does the worst one, they start blaming the wife for picking him as the husband. but then they also says you're way too picky.
it's stupid
2026-10-05 05:44:31
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Mel :
Say it louder girl. Say it f’ing louder!!!!
2026-10-06 07:25:35
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ava :
Holy fucking bars
2026-10-05 03:26:11
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meow :
I’m not going to live with someone who’ll make me feel like I’m a single mom tf
2026-10-05 09:54:15
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ashley.liferootedinfaith :
BE PICKY!!!!
2026-10-06 01:04:08
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thatsfunnyiknow :
yes, be picky, know what you want, marry someone who you want as your support, because life can be so very hard, but doing it beside your best friend is such a gift!
2026-10-06 04:07:14
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ᴏᴀᴋʟᴇʏ𓊍🐆🌪️💜 :
2026-10-05 02:53:36
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Tiyisela & 12,564 others :
Be picky. Everything you want exists.
2026-10-05 05:36:26
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Mia :
You’re way to picky my sister told me. Wanting me to get married to a jobless person. And she is with one and suffering everyday and always telling me
2026-10-05 11:00:01
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Geek :
and that's how I realised I can't live with men
2026-10-05 07:16:30
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worldsamess911 :
His height will determine how others envy me. His money will determine my life style. …
2026-10-05 22:26:08
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💊™️ :
My mom wasn’t picky enough and now I’m in therapy once a week with severe trust issues and a constant belief that I am not worth love. Of course I’m picky.
2026-10-05 18:02:54
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Xx_DeeBeTakinDee_xX :
like i thought we were SUPPOSED to be picking better men
2026-10-05 18:21:33
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GH0ULISHGL00M :
This. I hate when people try to convince me that its ridiculous to seek out an ideal partner. If i have to wait 20 years for a lasting and genuine relationship to settle with, I will do so. I will never settle for someone who has major negatives about them. Of course, u cant avoid small disagreements and differences, its natural and ensures ur both still your own person. However, if you have something as big as a boundary and moral gap, it is NOT wrong to end that relationship. Your peace isn't worth risking just to avoid being single. You'll find your person eventually. (And this isn't excluding trial and error with dating, thats also completely normal, and we learn from mistakes).
2026-10-05 06:19:56
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