@hardshiptoharmony: The language of ‘healed’ has always bothered me slightly when it comes to inner child work. It implies a finish line. A point where they’re sorted and you can move on. But that’s not how it works. And I think that framing - healing as destination rather than relationship - is part of why so many people feel like they’re failing at something they’re actually doing really well. Your inner child doesn’t need to be resolved. It’s a relationship that needs to worked at. Consistently, patiently, without the conditions they were surrounded by when the wounds formed in the first place. That means getting curious about your triggers rather than trying to manage them away. It means showing up in the ordinary moments - not just the painful moments. It means advocating for your own needs in the present as a direct act of care for the version of you that never had that. The work isn’t finished when you stop reacting. The work is finished when they trust you enough to finally rest. Comment below if this landed - and share this with someone doing the work who needs to know they don’t need to be finished. They just need to keep showing up. HardshipToHarmony is live now. Link in my bio. 🌿 #InnerChildHealing #Reparenting #TraumaHealing #InnerWork #HealingJourney

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nat8383
nat8383 :
I mean replacing the term throughout all you have said here :)
2026-10-14 07:01:23
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neverletany1dullursparkl
never Let Any1 Dull ur Sparkle :
100% 🤘💫 yes, doing just that 🙏
2026-10-06 07:50:00
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enteleksy
Alex T. :
it does. I never felt the healing thingy was the answer..🙏🙏
2026-10-06 13:30:55
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ownyourdash
ownyourdash :
This makes so much sense, thank you 🫶🏽
2026-10-05 20:56:36
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elainehiselmichel
elainehiselmichel :
I have four big boundaries that advocates for my interview child and myself. I told my Husband of over 25 years when we first started dating that I have 4 things that are "Deal Breakers" for me. 1. No yelling, ever. You can problem solve without yelling. I won't yell at you. The road runs two ways. Yelling kills the Spirit in things. Be respectful towards each other. 2. I understand that you may need to leave to find your center and calm down. I need for you to say, out loud, you will return and I am important enough to have the difficult conversation with so togetherwe can find solutions. 3. Absolutely NO name calling. Period. 4. If something is bothering you, tell me. I cannot read your mind. No passive aggressive heavy sighs, or stomping around. Talk to me in a tone that is respectful. Not with sarcasm. We do these things...always. Is it easy. Not always, but the road has to run both ways. Ghosting doesn't happen in our relationship. We have the hard conversations, but those conversations are done with quiet, loving voices. My interchild needed this. His intercooler needed this. We did this to find a loving, respectful path forward.
2026-10-06 00:58:16
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krisgothacker_soulfire
krisgothacker_soulfire :
Absolutely. 👍
2026-10-05 17:33:30
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iamvanessa888
iamvanessa888 :
My dad. He managed to get anyone out of his life due to his way of dealing with people. And yesterday he texted a “sad” message that he is alone etc and I needed to be there. He blamed me fot his loneliness in different words. I know this pattern with him. But now I got mad, something clicked in me. I texted my truth back set boundaries and it was probably painful for him to read but I stopped being scared of him feeling like I have to do things and hear him complaining all the time. I am free at last! He can not hit me anymore because I am to old but he still knew how to hurt me with words. I am an empathic person but know at 51 and a lot going on in my Aries sun sign, I stopped it and I warned him not to come back with huge letters like every single time I spoke up for myself. This time I felt that little girl in me was not afraid anymore. ❤️
2026-10-06 07:22:18
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dawn.easteal
Dawn Easteal :
I let my inner child play, I listen to her. I'm 5 yrs and 6 months. Or adult 56 ! X
2026-10-06 12:10:17
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nickymarie50
🕊️ Nicky Marie 🕊️ :
Healing is a journey, not a destination
2026-10-10 22:34:24
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nilly_nilly_
𝑵𝒊𝒍𝒍𝒚 ♡💚💫☄️ :
👏🏽. I forever acknowledge my inner child, she is me and I am now her safety and protector xx
2026-10-06 08:10:25
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yvonnelothian
Yvonne Lothian :
yes ❤️
2026-10-05 18:38:05
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emmaasfaypg
Emma :
Yes so interesting trainee therapist here
2026-10-06 05:33:01
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bpdbrain79
crazybrain😂 :
your always talking about things I need to hear right now, but its nice to know im on the right path, im doing this part now and omg it hurts, but needs to hurt to heal it,
2026-10-07 05:17:15
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lisahamer37
lisahamer37 :
100%!!!! Tending to the small ordinary moments 😳 showing up constantly.. Inner child is a relationship with myself. Needing a moment to process and listen to what is being said. Definitely reframed how I can move forward with life.
2026-10-09 10:20:21
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lisabuckleyjoyce08
lu :
thank you sending much 🌸🌸🌸
2026-10-05 14:45:37
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louise.arnold5
Louise Arnold :
Absolutely ✨✨✨✨🧚‍♂️
2026-10-06 04:36:53
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seabreeze3155
seabreeze :
loved the way you explained that Dan, I fully understood you too. almost like a penny had dropped,I have been doing some of that hard work on my inner child, thank you for sharing this with the rest of us 🙏
2026-10-08 21:26:45
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nat8383
nat8383 :
Also, i’ve just tried replacing the term « inner child » with your « soul », it works too
2026-10-14 06:59:54
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nat8383
nat8383 :
Thankyou !!
2026-10-14 06:58:44
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user3855414274321
Connie Lewis :
I’m 71 and over the last five years I have learned how huge the word safest and that’s what I just told me and my child every day we’re safe to move forward to release. Thank you for your validation in Canada.🥰
2026-10-05 17:00:40
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goodenoughgoodenough
Merlin Stardust :
They will be apart of us forever 💜💜💜
2026-10-07 06:24:22
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2peacelover
Untetheredmind :
Mothering the child within 🫂 Giving grace to yourself and others as they also have an inner child.💜 Get curious, as understanding leads to compassion for both🙏🌱
2026-10-07 10:53:23
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rachelhoneybun4
Rachel Honeybun :
love this. this has been an ongoing battle for decades 🥰
2026-10-05 18:41:12
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helen0569
Helen.AU.... :
yes
2026-10-05 19:47:05
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buildbacknew2026
buildbacknew2026 :
Become the person your inter child needed. Love and acceptance will follow. - you are a true lighthouse thank you 🙏🏾 x
2026-10-05 20:20:53
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