after being in a dead end marriage. being abused sexually, physically, mentally and financially.. i left after 13 years and and found my new partner only a couple of months later. So what, what does it say?
2026-10-05 13:22:33
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spiralwithintent :
What if the person with a glow up and new relationship is the same person? 🤔
2026-10-06 16:11:47
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Jen 🇨🇦 :
The person who jumped into a relationship had mentally broken up a long time before they ended it, therefore was ready for it. The one who got a glow up was complacent and didn’t see it coming and had a wake up call.
2026-10-05 13:46:27
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MatD1971 :
I think its important to note that 'the glow up' is often preceded by the person hitting rock bottom, losing a ton of weight, quite a lot of crying, upset, hurt, anger and questioning urself....... THEN you start to re-build!
The wrong'n will of course already be in another relationship. usually with the person they were cheating with, behind ur back, before ur break up, and living their life without a care in the World. They're also probably already eyeing up their next victim to move onto after that one!
2026-10-05 11:59:09
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Krystle :
A glow up after a break could be that person is finally at peace for the first time in years. Jumping into a relationship could also mean that person was emotionally checked out of the relationship a long time ago. So it could mean something else completely. You can’t place people into boxes and expect everyone’s break up is the same or the actions after. Life doesn’t work that way. Stop trying to stereotype people and their personal situations.
2026-10-05 20:39:54
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Deborah Stabell Tran :
Neither of these really mean anything
2026-10-08 20:52:38
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Jenny :
I left an abusive marriage and immediately found someone far better. Sorry, I don't need to mourn someone who was toxic.
2026-10-06 05:55:10
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Sweet-life-of-Kristen :
Well I did both lol 🤦♀️😂
2026-10-05 11:18:43
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Kasia :
what if I'm both?🤣
2026-10-07 03:52:37
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The Inclusive Voice :
I mean it can happen whilst in a relationship when one pulls the energy back 🤣😅😳
2026-10-08 18:22:52
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oshd9284ks :
Where’s the hot take? All I see is people giving off wayuu different perspectives and opinions on what could have happened.
2026-10-08 04:11:44
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Anna Z. :
Simple as that!
2026-10-08 15:28:22
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TootsyTulip :
what if they glow up AND get into a relationship super fast?
2026-10-07 18:23:45
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Meraki.bakes. :
that's not always true.
2026-10-05 13:23:38
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lupita!🫶 :
Some jump into relationships while they are already in a relationship 😂😂😂😂
2026-10-06 03:54:54
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Lynn Ham :
Hmm well he is getting the glow up and I have met someone xx
2026-10-07 21:17:31
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Hiker Jo :
Well i got myself a glow up and an new man. Best thing that ever happened to me
2026-10-05 12:41:12
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🏳️🌈ShaeBaby :
Been out of my marriage for three months and I’m over the relationship I just don’t want anybody at all! Focusing on my kids and getting through this divorce
2026-10-05 22:45:32
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Hallas :
My ex jumped right into a relationship (with the woman he’d been cheating on me with for 4 years) and I lost 150lbs and started living for me and my kiddo. 🤷♀️
2026-10-05 19:27:34
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jojo :
I healed alone and he was in another relationship right away . Now he is unhappy realized what he lost but now I am healed and don’t want him back in fact I am so happy standing on my own I don’t want another partner . No more stress happier than I have ever been
2026-10-05 21:53:05
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Mimi :
He had one 6 days later, 2 years so far I’ve lost 20 pounds and still single, I have peace and love it
2026-10-05 20:02:57
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Alicia Rosato :
I don’t know that that actually holds weight. Frequently when people leave a marriage the person that leaves grieved the marriage for years before they actually left. I was in an incredibly abusive situation and I had an incredible glow up immediately, but I also started dating within two weeks. It didn’t mean that he wasn’t an abuser and that I was the bad guy. It simply means that I moved on when I was already in the relationship. This is a really bad take.
2026-10-05 14:32:58
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disco_lemonade 🗝️ :
Women mourn during the relationship. By the time we are done, we’ve spent a good 11months crying. Now we can heal. 🥰
2026-10-06 01:04:24
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sheila :
Normally I’d agree but just maybe they were in a dead ass marriage for way too long and was just ready to begin to live again. Everyone’s story is different.
2026-10-05 19:11:55
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mona :
what i can gather if a person gets a glow up ( the other person sufficated them ) the person heading straight for another relationship ( they seeking something they never found with you ) this making them repeating the same old ( me ) even when they are with someone new
2026-10-05 13:17:35
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