@mind_yourboundaries: ‼️ And when people come ask why you’re shutting your mother-in-law out, acknowledge their concern and close the drama triangle immediately: “I know you’re bringing this up because you care AND mom can call us directly if she has questions. Now onto the topic at hand, how’d Ben do at soccer?” Do you guys think it’s strange that the ex still wants to know things about Kirsten’s husband and their life? Ten years after the fact and she’s the one who cheated… Even if I’m her, and I believe he’s the one who got away, it’s over. He’s remarried, and has a family. It’s time to MOVE ON. Hearing these details would only hurt me more and prevent me from moving forward. PSA this story was shared by one of you for educational and reflective purposes only. Not meant to replace advice and or treatment from licensed professionals. #boundaries #storytime #ex #mil #relationshipadvice
What is with all the mil thinking they are going to be raising the baby. Have seen this so many times lately
2026-10-05 16:26:00
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Wizana :
Cut. Her. Off.
2026-10-05 12:17:22
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Frosty4343 :
MIL will know nothing about my life
2026-10-05 13:54:38
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Betty B :
regardless, if the husband has moved on to a new relationship, he should have dealt with the situation between his mother and his cheating ex on his own
before getting into a new relationship. I personally don't want to start a relationship with a man that doesn't understand boundaries and doesn't understand a healthy relationship, let alone having children with him and expecting him to keep healthy boundaries for our child. absolutely not. that is not a provider that is not a protector.
2026-10-05 14:55:31
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Kimberly Gillow372 :
I would be making a police report too about the ex. It is not likely to be enough for an order of protection at this point but if she escalates, having the report already filed showing what's happening now will help at that point.
2026-10-05 15:03:31
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lace594 :
My husbands mother did this too. He told her multiple times this was weird and made him uncomfortable. She would have play dates with my nephew and the ex and ex’s children from her marriage. It was so so weird and even made my husband’s brother/my brother in law and sister in law uncomfortable.
2026-10-05 12:43:38
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Eileen Louise Harris :
Absolutely not
2026-10-05 12:11:24
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katiejones :
become besties with mils husbands ex or someone she absolutely hates. 2 can play that game😁
2026-10-05 15:48:26
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judithrios67 :
Absolutely Under reacting
2026-10-05 16:58:56
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