girl I've accepted that not even my parents care about me. my mom is a pick me and my dad is a narcissist. I only got myself fr.
2026-10-05 15:26:21
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Ms naimo :
This! No body cares so I get what I need and once the benefits stop, I leave
2026-10-05 13:56:43
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Jezebella :
I can't stand when people say that children receive unconditional love. The kids I receive unconditional love are the same kids that grow into lazy and harmful adults. Human nature is too brutal to not have any conditions under it.
2026-10-05 17:50:29
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bitsofkeji :
I say it a lotttt MOST PEOPLE DONT KNOW WHAT LOVE IS!!
2026-10-05 14:46:06
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char.the.blueprint :
Thank goodness I too don’t care about nobody but my self and if something doesn’t benefit me , i don’t entertain it . I guess IM NO BETTER THAN A MAN
2026-10-05 15:47:43
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Chrissy’sConvos :
This world is cold , the only person that will love, care and advocate for your needs is you.
2026-10-05 18:09:24
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Danielle Lavirgo :
And they think knowing something is the same thing as having the courage or skillset of applying it. Everyone “been saying this for a long time” in the comments. Yet…lol
2026-10-05 15:38:05
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Michella | Shesorich ✨ :
Ever since I started watching your content, my life has done a complete 360 i definitely take you advice. It’s basically free game.😩💯
2026-10-05 15:59:08
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machoduor :
I don't agree with you on lots of things, I admire lots of things you say but I agree that 'lots of things take lots of time to acquire e.g finesse...'
2026-10-05 14:34:58
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𝑔𝒶𝒾𝓁/𝒜𝒢݁ ᛪ༙🇩🇪🇷🇺 :
yup. but i don’t mind, because i’m the same way. i’m a clinical narcissist, nothing i feel runs very deep. i don’t bother with anything or anyone unless it benefits me, and i have the unique awareness of the fact that this world IS selfish. people care about their benefit first. if you don’t prioritize your personal gain, someone else will run you dry for theirs. and empathy is the biggest scam unless you’re talking about cognitive empathy in politics. personal empathy is a complete waste of time. i’m glad i don’t feel empathy at all for anything. there’s no point degrading yourself in feeling for people who did wrong by you just because they can.
2026-10-05 18:30:57
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Sissyyyy :
I wonder why men say they do. Even men that don't aren't on a serious relationship with you. But "like you" they'll say they "care" about you all their own whole time they don't
2026-10-05 18:56:25
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Be.inspired.by.Elycia :
I didn’t even know how to describe this. But I have understood this for a long time. I’m just now figuring out how to move and how to get more out of situations for myself. Everything is transactional!
2026-10-06 04:37:27
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MetalWoman9 :
Heavyyyyyyy on the Most people don't give ahhhh fuckkkkkk about YOU!!!! I've come to that realization and I continue to remind myself of that!!! You're SpittinG Factsssssss and I truly appreciate Alllllll your messages and I APPLY THEM MOST TIMES💯👊🏾
2026-10-05 18:35:28
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miss blinga :
I'm coming to term with this reality lately....we women want to be "that girl" and special and important to others so bad to fulfill our self worth but self worth is supposed to be intrinsic.
2026-10-05 18:55:22
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Kendra CCHt :
People can have an affectionate tone, rearrange words around and say the things people want to hear but the entire time at their core, they want to drain tf out of you. The ego does not lie. Watch and let time tell... they were never your friend, just needed that exchange for whatever it does for them.
2026-10-06 00:30:15
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Meka :
I’m applying, you have snapped me out of a lot of fairytale I used to believe
2026-10-05 17:24:17
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Doryrhesa🇰🇪 :
my siblings care
2026-10-06 06:40:29
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traceycierrarivers :
Whew!!! You have articulated how I think and how I navigate through life…. And I tried explaining the “care” thing to someone last night and he just couldn’t understand. But thank you for carrying out your purpose. ✨🫶🏽
2026-10-05 14:04:02
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bitsofkeji :
omo I APPLY like MAD! I'm too grateful for you abeg because you made me realise that I used to underestimate the innate wisdom I had from within! You like what's it? Validate it? And made me realise I was right! Just because the ppl around me don't think the way I think doesn't mean I'm wrong! From young I thought unconditional love was actual bull and a means for enabling abuse and whatever but I was taught to believe otherwise, the list goes on and on. Your words make me look in the mirror!! This is real asffff
2026-10-05 14:45:32
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RealEstateKeisha :
And that’s why your only concern, especially in regards to men is WHAT ARE THEY DOING FOR YOU. I think being transactional is the best way to measure if someone is Solid or Not. You can develop care and love out of being transactional, It depends on the terms of the transaction. But being transactional helps you measure and gauge the character of that person to get what it is you need from that person. And when the terms of that transaction have expired then it’s just time to move on.
2026-10-05 19:41:57
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user65445964390 :
i make sure to watch your videos every day. i know myself and its hard for things that you say to register in my brain because in a way, my innocence is crumbling and i can’t wrap my head around certain things. BUT I KNOW YOURE RIGHT. it’s like when my mother tells me XYZ and later she turns out to be right. so thank you for your content you have changed my perspective on many things. i get peace sometimes from knowing the truth even though it hurts
2026-10-05 16:09:18
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Jodz :
Listennn... I copied this and clocked it a long time ago... And that has saved me so much[Gesture OK][Gesture OK]... I NEVER THINK I AM SPECIAL.
2026-10-05 14:45:42
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Jay.jay :
trueeeeee
2026-10-05 14:54:06
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Elle_ella🩻 :
Realllll😂
2026-10-05 14:51:19
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