@thebeeingtony: Teach your partner this: "Tell me the same day I hurt you. What I don't know about, I repeat. And what you keep quiet about, you carry alone. Neither of us wins that way." #Love

SznofSarahh :

This is great advice! Let’s remember it’s us against the problem not us against each other!

cindyallmon505 :

My husband have a next day rule. Because we both have a hard time registering trigger vs in the moment hurt, we say "If its still on your mind the next day, bring it up and we will explore it." for us it could be past trauma needing healed not even something the other person actually did.

Lisaj :

Sadly ppl suffer from communication skills.

Lexus :

When I hurt my husband I ask him what I did to hurt him and he makes me play a guessing game and I don’t like that. I don’t get why he can’t just say what it is.

Tee The PMU Artist :

Still didn’t work! He simply repeated his patterns and I simply walked away.

cara_uncut :

Told him this and he still couldn’t stop cheating on me. 🙃

kam :

What if you tell them and they deflect and bring up everything you did years ago

chriswhitehorn6 :

I needed to hear this!

rudie0409 :

Oh it doesn’t matter. Some people just don’t grow up…..

MyEbonyEyez84 :

I love that advice

SmallTownCrazy :

this is what broke up my last relationship. it was little things, that if they had just spoke up we could have talked about it and been good but they bottled it up until the end

Mya. :

PURITY 🦋 :

Opening up helps so much in a relationship.

Aziza 💕 :

WORRRRRD!

ms.rebecca💕 :

Please he doesn’t listen

Renae Marlowe :

This is grown people behavior. Love this

Dynamite_♉️ :

Absolutely 💯

Corinne Nankivell :

bellaswan_1908 :

This!!!

tavant33 :

Awsome word of advice 🙏

the_sassyscorpio :

As a leaver, thank you for this! I realized a lot of my mistakes in previous relationships and I’ve definitely been unlearning a lot! I like to talk things out but I understand some ppl need space to think first

LaLa :

So true!!!💯😍

CC Baby :

So true!!!

AtmosphereThePoet :

Oh this is good

__daliaq :

Period.