@thelegalqueen: Your ex sends a message. Your stomach drops. Suddenly, you’re spending your evening defending yourself. Unless something genuinely needs urgent attention, give yourself time before replying. Ask yourself what actually needs an answer? Then Keep it brief keep it factual then get back to your evening save this for the next time you feel pulled into an argument. ##thelegalqueen##coparenting##separation##divorce

DB :

Oh no.. we have worse situation because my partners ex communicates through his children despite numerous attempts to communicate with her directly

Mt :

It’s ping pong game. Just teach yourself to put your phone in a drawer and don’t reply

Jessika :

Mines stopped video calls with my 4 yr old💔

misfitmedium :

Exactly! A message is a request, not a demand.

Jen Jen x :

Constant….: gives horrendous anxiety 😩

pink54321 :

Hi, just looking for a bit of advice, I'm in a domestic abuse marriage, but mentally and physically and have been for 40 years and married for 22 years, husband is self employed and has a limited company, he has massive savings and I have no access to money at all as he will not have a joint bank account and hasn't done for 20 years, I have applied for divorce and that is going through but I'm unsure of what to do next, I am ment to have an appointment next week with a solicitor about the financial situation but I just can't afford it, what I need to know is if I divorce him but stay in the same house and don't go for half of everything what will happen if say he died or something what would happen to the financial side of things, would I still get the money and house etc if I just stop at the divorce?

Bin-to-Box Shoe Care :

always take 48 hours to reply if you feel that you are pissed off.

Jayne Elliott :

Email only and give it 24 hours to process. If in 24 hours it’s not important then don’t reply

Georgia Brown :

Hi Tracy, please please message me back

Lisa Janey 🫡 :

yup .... email actually .... which i haven't actually replied to it ✌😁..... 2 weeks late I still haven't replied.

Fiona :

I used to wait at least 30 mins to reply to every text. I found it stopped things getting out of control.

Cariad💕💖 :

What if your the new partner and his ex is doing this to you, constantly

sarahkerry :

I only respond if it’s parenting admin.. if it’s some kind of horrible text in my opinion no response is a response

Beth❤️ :

my no responses are getting negative reactions. nothing at all worthy responding to.

Hells bells! :

can an ex's solicitor refuse to answer your emails directly if you didnt reply through a solicitor to try to save money. all I asked was in August they said a divorce had been applied for but have not received any paperwork could they confirm that divorce has been filed.

Aayan :

thelornadines :

I do that, and he accuses me of being “non-communicative” to my solicitor and the social worker. I only respond if it actually needs an answer, or is an emergency. My mental health has taken a battering the last decade, and its only recently I’ve taken the decision to protect myself and my wellbeing.

Chyna :

i always. open my notes and brain dump in there. either that or you can WhatsApp yourself.. dump it there and hit send. youve sent it to yourself but the pressing send soothes your brain

Samantha JC (She\ Her) :

Keep your cool! Beat the pillow, dig a hole or scream obscenities into the washing machine 😁

Three musketeers✨🦋🧁🧔‍♀️🐅 :

This took me a long time to stop, if it’s not about the kids then I don’t answer. No response is a response 🫶

Malady :

No this is when I see a notification of an email coming through from my ex partner SH’s solicitor at 9pm at night.

Matthew Watson :

That still happens to be when my current partner rings me. Let alone my ex. In fact, I'd rather my ex rang me

apsobsolete :

Just block the flipping number. Simple as that.

K :

But isn’t this the fault of the person then? My ex used to do this all the time ‘you’re interrupting me and I feel pressured’ if you respond and start discussion I feel a lot of people manipulate this when it’s not going their way and now you’re the issue

ShantJess92 :

Constant gives horrendous anxiety even when I hear his voice give me anxiety 😩