@soraunni: if a man thinks women date for free dinner, he's underestimating her time and overestimating dinner 😭 getting ready takes hours. then the date itself. but the real cost is the opportunity cost. time away from building what I'm building. from income-generating work. from resting. from my kid. from the people I already love. I'm spending all that on a MAYBE. that's an investment, not a free meal. #datingadvice #dating #relationships #datingtips #opportunitycost
your bag, hair, jewelry, and makeup; is equal to the cost of outfit, watch, hair, and jewelry of the male attending the dinner date. He is also doing the same investment in time. So I dont think there is merit in this argument.
2026-10-05 18:01:50
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Henry.Runs :
Don’t wear anything expensive. No makeup. No jewelry. Come in your pajamas and we good. And you pay for dinner 🥰
2026-10-05 22:43:59
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My_Life_Lessons :
Goes both ways. You are taking up my time. I don’t like paying dinner for an interview. Paying for coffee or drinks and making a quick decision to pursue further is ok.
2026-10-05 23:07:47
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alskehcisn :
Isn’t the guy making an investment as well in his opportunity cost?
2026-10-05 16:18:01
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on gawd :
So then split the bill
2026-10-06 06:41:59
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Beanz999 :
So if the guy has a car, does the girl pay for his dinner then?
2026-10-06 09:25:47
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Neruchuu :
Isn’t the investment the same for both?
2026-10-07 01:19:29
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PSG.PARISIENS :
Just go 50/50 then it’s fair
2026-10-07 23:42:46
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BaconMayo :
I’m sorry don’t men do the same thing, clothes,Cars and paying and supporting his woman.
2026-10-06 01:00:18
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Ice Cold Beer :
I've met so many girls who just wanna take me to high end restaurants all the time , one of them ordered a $500 steak and asked if she can have two pieces..
2026-10-05 17:11:02
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agentcody35 :
thats a stupid argument, you are making an effort to be more presentable overall not for that one specific person. also, are we going to also consider a man’s gym membership, education, and assets which are also attraction triggers?
2026-10-25 00:35:49
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QuickProPho :
20 to 30 grand investment on any given day? By that logic, if someone comes over to my house for dinner I can say I’ve invested several hundred grand in this date because of the investment in my home. Perfect. The point of dating and courtship is to find someone to share a life with, so if either person is that concerned about price tags, it’s already doomed.
2026-10-05 23:42:06
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Josh32165 :
How have we gotten to the point where women’s time is so valuable but if you ask someone out to coffee to get to know them which requires low investment in time effort on both sides, it’s looked down upon….
2026-10-18 20:19:55
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SomeoneBetter :
that logic makes no sense
a dude's expenses mean nothing?
their hygiene care and hair cuts
outfit (including accessories and cologne)
their car (fuel, wear and tear, insurance)
the date itself
2026-10-05 19:55:30
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Moos n mews :
How about the value of time for the other person - quite ironic to overlook non-obvious investment on other side. Get over the parochial outlook. But may be not. Because these low stakes, superficial takes are easy sell on SM.
2026-10-05 17:07:19
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Mini0808 :
Talk like as if the man did not spend his time, his outfit, his watches, his car as an investment as well, split the bill period!
2026-10-09 03:04:52
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Rob :
I'm just wondering the hair the makeup the outfits isn't that part of your lifestyle already, so why do you have to bring that into the mix I'm just asking my
2026-10-05 18:01:56
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Kate Zuniga :
Absolutely agreed, To me, paying for my own dinner is just a basic part of my day; I can't understand how some people think that way.
2026-10-06 15:10:55
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Awkn :
Making sure your presentable for a date is not exclusively expected for the women
2026-10-07 03:31:18
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Hana Nguyen :
“Standard feels high when you stand below them”.
2026-10-07 03:47:05
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Siefer :
oh wait so my car my watch my suit my shoes and alldat has to be counted for too right?(oh wait I don't have a car)😂
2026-10-06 08:42:23
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Mariane808 :
Make up is more expensive than dinner 😂 so never give yourself away😏 lady’s you are so expensive to be cheap.
2026-10-07 22:09:11
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Tridy Ceo Nyamar :
They want us to pay with our body lol
2026-10-19 08:01:50
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koreanskincareunni :
Whoever asks for the date should pay on the first date
2026-10-05 21:06:07
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FAMMF :
seems she forgot the other male investmant then dinner i had to pay more then 30k >_> to get to that dinner >_>
2026-10-05 22:17:30
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