Carly|Life after Grace 🌸♥️
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Kelly Hoy | Mum toAngel Maddie :
your just hit the nail on the head of what happened to me I'm 40 in December except I'm not a step mum. My little girl lived her whole life in hospital & I went from living my days from 6am to 9pm to being at the hospital to nothing & unfortunately for us I cant have another baby due to a chromosome issues I have. its hard for me to accept that I'll never hear her laugh see her learn to crawl or sit up. I never got her outside & we only had her in a pram once. xxxx
2026-10-05 15:30:20
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Carla :
You don’t ever have to explain. I pray you have an angel baby in your arms. It would help heal your heartbreak 💔
2026-10-05 15:40:54
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Courtney~Life after loss 🤍 :
I can only imagine, it's the opposite for us. We had Bobby to be Penny's little friend and to watch her be a big sister because she was so so loving and caring and helpful and we just wanted to be complete. Bobby only had 3 months with his big sissy and now he feels like an only child which sounds silly because Penny is still absolutely everything, but what I wanted to give to Penny was taken away for Bobby. Have your baby when you are ready 🤍 Whether that's now or in 5 years, you deserve to watch your baby to grow up too 🤍🤍🤍
2026-10-08 02:02:08
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JoL33ch :
I don’t think any of us who have experienced child loss can adequately articulate grief, whilst others understand that it’s more than just missing your child, it’s grieving her and your future. It’s not just missing big events, it’s waking up in the morning to her smile, brushing her hair, her favourite tv programme.. and every milestone.. I listen to a song by Robbie Williams ‘Baby Girls Window’ it encapsulates the breadth of the infinite span of grief, from the minutiae to the massive missing pieces of the future we had imagined xx
2026-10-06 12:46:07
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nanabee :
sweetheart my heart breaks for you..it really does. I don't think for one minute that you would be replacing grace..you never could. I think you are showing that you are a fantastic mum and that you've got lots of parental love to give. ❤️❤️❤️🥰🥰🥰❤️❤️❤️
2026-10-05 15:25:56
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anto :
life is so unfair you are a amazing mum couldn't imagine how you feel every single word you say is so heartbreaking in time you will have your beautiful little baby 💔💔 sending lots of hugs ❤️❤️
2026-10-05 17:13:48
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Bral47 :
You can’t actively mother your baby, and that’s just awful. That’s a completely valid feeling. You are and always will be her mum, and you miss everything about her, but also wanting to actively be a mum and do all the things that mums do, even little things like the washings for them, that’s ok to miss that and want to do that. It’s ok to miss actively mothering, I totally get what you’re saying ♥️xx
2026-10-06 16:22:10
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Sophie Keaney :
I hope and pray you get everything you want Carly. You deserve nothing but happiness 🧡 xx
2026-10-05 15:42:43
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dawn.louise210🏴 :
As a mummy to an angel , I totally get this! You will never fill the hole Grace has left in your heart but you can fill your arms again. My 2nd daughter (3rd child) was born 18 months after I lost Amber (2nd child). You will absolutely never forget her and no child will ever replace her - I still talk about Amber to both my kids and she passed 11 years ago ! Sending love and strength ❤️🫶🏼xx
2026-10-06 15:40:07
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Posty :
Carly you are incredible, I hope you know that. You will get your angel baby. You will never ever replace Grace, she will always be your little girl ❤️sending love and hugs xx
2026-10-05 18:47:10
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Linda :
Keep talking Carly. We’re all here to listen if it helps you. You could never replace Grace. She was such a special little girl. You can hopefully have another child whenever you’re ready. Just take your time. Don’t ever feel guilty feeling you want to be a mum to another child.
2026-10-05 15:31:20
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Becky Edmonds :
I hope no one thinks that. No one can ever people say that to me. I have a 4yo. My daughter Mia died at birth 3 months ago, they say will you have another - yes hopefully but it won’t be her and it breaks my heart the thought of a baby being my belly that’s not her. And the mum thing I do understand. Even I have a 4yo and a daughter who’s now gone i don’t feel like a mum of 2. I feel like his mum and I feel like her mum seperately. Sending you all my love day by day xxx
2026-10-05 15:53:28
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janette :
your fab mum you will.have another baby wen times right .it will all fall into place soon ♥️♥️♥️
2026-10-05 15:37:42
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Kate ❤️ :
any future baby will be so lucky to have you as their mum. Grace was a lucky wee girl and i truly believe she will send you another wee baby to love and look after. Give yourself time and remember baby steps. You wont ever replace Grace. Shes always always going to be your firstborn and the one who made you a mummy ❤️much love xxxxxx
2026-10-05 15:49:05
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daisygirlb :
When you do get pregnant again, no one will ever think you are replacing grace. The way you talk about her she’s still with you. There will never be replacing her because she’s spoken about and her memory is kept alive the way it should be. Iv not been in your shoes but i follow you because its nice to hear about her and the little life she had ❤️❤️❤️
2026-10-05 18:25:00
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Kellie Marie :
You are and will be an amazing mum to your future babies when the timing is right 💞💞💞💞
2026-10-05 16:46:50
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georgialoft24 :
I think Grace will be waiting for the right time to send you all a beautiful baby to love just as much as you continue to love her [Pink heart] you can tell you have so so much love to give and you will be a mum again. And I hope no one thinks you’d be trying to replace Grace - if they’ve watched your videos they will know you’d never ever be trying to replace your beautiful girl [Heartwarming] xxx
2026-10-05 17:13:30
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tknq2 :
sending you loads of love and hugs 🩷💛 Grace will never be forgotten and her baby brother or sister will know all about her 💕 we will all make sure of that!! xxx
2026-10-05 21:10:42
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WreathsbyRutherford 2.0 :
A new baby will heal part of your heart 💜and no one will ever be able to tell you if and when it’s a possibility x
2026-10-05 15:49:51
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Claire0408 :
You don’t ever have to explain lovely. I pray you get your angel baby soon, I really think this will help you of course you’ll never replace Grace. Don’t forget she is always around you & would be watching over her brother/ sister whichever it may be, do what’s right for you as a family & don’t think anyone would ever judge as any decent human being would get it xx
2026-10-05 20:18:51
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Shannon K :
You never have to explain yourself. My sister lost her son to cancer aged 8 but found out 2 days before he died that she was pregnant. Babies weren’t on the cards for her but this baby changed her whole life. There is great joy and grief and they can go together. He didn’t replace him, he just made her smile again after such an awful thing to happen to her 🥹✨ your angel baby will come🫶🏼xxx
2026-10-06 08:40:02
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❄️ :
I wouldn't wait, if you really want an other baby. i had my boy at 31 and haven't managed to get pregnant again and I'm 40 . it could take a while, and the older you are for some women the harder it can be🩷
2026-10-05 15:31:42
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Ash 🥰 :
Life is cruel :( your an incredible person x
2026-10-05 20:23:10
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Bella babies 💕 :
the next baby you have will always be guided and blessed over by grace she will be the best big sister from where she is ! you deserve the love and happiness of another child , and don't say it because you will see her be the best big sister one day just not now . sending lots of love 🙏🏽💕💕
2026-10-06 16:20:43
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Claudina 🎀 :
You said exactly what I was thinking. My only daughter Maria Renata passed away two months ago, she was seven months old, and I miss being her mom in an active way: our routine, taking care of her, playing with her. I mis her so much! 🥺 We plan to have more children, but everything changed after we lost her. I know no one will ever replace her, she will always be our firstborn, but planning our life has become harder without her. 🥺💔❤️🩹🫂 sending you hugs
2026-10-05 15:49:13
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