@rude_advice: This company r3_contingencies offers a variety of contingency services designed to help people navigate difficult and potentially dangerous situations, but there’s one service in particular that I wanted to highlight. They offer assistance to women who are trying to safely escape abusive and narcissistic relationships. Leaving an abusive relationship isn’t always as simple as packing a bag and walking away. Fear, manipulation, financial control, isolation, and uncertainty can make leaving incredibly difficult. In this video, he explains how this particular service works and why he decided to offer it. Sometimes the hardest part isn’t realizing you need to leave. It’s figuring out how. I have no affiliation partnership with this company. And I am simply sharing it for awareness to help women in this situation. #DomesticViolenceAwareness #NarcissisticAbuse #EmotionalAbuse #AbusiveRelationships #SurvivorSupport

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Rachel :
I’m a hairstylist who does this.
2026-10-06 00:04:47
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judytorres623
Judy Torres :
There should be a bank account where people can donate to his company for women that can't afford this services. EXCELLENT WORK!
2026-10-05 23:57:40
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piscesrising72
Dawn Marie :
In 1996 I ran with 4 children, $200, our car, and only the clothes on our backs. I eventually made it to a safe house but he found us 3 weeks later. We moved to a new safe house and he found us 2 weeks later, broke in and held a shotgun to my head for 4 hours. He left before sunrise, I called the police, his parents alibied him. We moved again and a month later he found us and cut the power steering line on the car. The most hurtful part of all of this is how he kept finding us.....my mother. I found out many months later that my mother, whom I trusted at the time, kept telling him where we were.
2026-10-06 04:03:22
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nuckinfuts73
Nucking_Futs 🇺🇸 :
my mom tricked my step dad into letting her take all of us kids at the same time to the dentist. He agreed for the first time in four years. she loaded us in the station wagon so fast. She'd slowly been stock piling money, clothes, food and we lived in the car for months. Safest we've ever felt.
2026-10-19 19:42:55
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Ursula Mckiddie🇦🇺 :
my son worked for a removal company that would turn up anytime with 4 huge men , my son is 6'5 , tattooed and built like a linebacker, to move women in this sort of scenario. He remembers when we ran to a woman's shelter when he was 8.
2026-10-06 13:07:27
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barbellmom406
barbellmom406 :
Now if we could do this for women who have zero money
2026-10-06 02:52:04
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ayloo720
Aya 720 :
In the original video... She saids.. "My dad... told me I can call this #" Her father.. set up this account for her.. Thank you!
2026-10-05 22:10:58
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rosilyngalea49
🥀🫒🍉SpinninDaisy2.0🍉🫒🥀 :
I found their page & they offer sponsorships for those who don't have the money so I am now donating $10/month to help. there are 3 tiers of sponsorship: $5/month, $20/month & a 1 time $1500. wish I could do more! thank you for spreading awareness!
2026-10-18 13:21:03
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krosefalcetta2
KRoseFalcetta :
Took 4 volunteers and 6 different cars to get us to the first safe house… God Bless each one of them.
2026-10-06 01:06:23
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ReeeWalk :
I ran from my 1st husband barefooted in a McDonald's uniform. I never looked back. it took years to get custody of my kids. we're all much better now
2026-10-05 23:26:17
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debi4897
Debi :
I ran from my ex husband 35 years ago with a dog, my 1 year old and 10.00. From Florida to California. Had a family member that worked in airline industry so I flew standby for free. Scariest day of my life but I made it. This would have been so nice.
2026-10-06 01:31:39
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spiritualbutterfly786
spiritualbutterfly786 :
I just escaped 3 weeks ago. I became a part of a Christian Bible study group. I shared the abuse I was experiencing. well the women in the group shared their backgrounds, military women. detective, therapist etc. they moved me out in the middle of the night while he was at work. I had to unplug the modem and the cameras. I was moved out in 2 hours. another lady who owns properties is allowing me stay at a townhouse until I get on my feet. I just left September 27th. oh I found a tracker in my car too. 😳
2026-10-18 21:32:02
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BlueAgate :
I escaped with my daughter. I spent years planning for it. I had my friends track him so I knew his schedule and hang out spots. It took years. I was betrayed a few times. Then one opportunity arose, one I hadn't planned for and I took it. I had no where to go, no one knew we had left. I had a couple hundred in cash. I texted theee friends' numbers, people I wasn't allowed to contact for years. One responded. I spent 5.5 months on a concrete floor in their basement. The room had no furniture or windows. I couldn't contact churches or shelters because of his family connections. We are 6.5 years free from him.
2026-10-06 04:10:03
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micheleoxborough
Michele Oxborough :
its sad that this is a necessary service for women
2026-10-06 04:56:22
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Tate Mac :
it took me 9 months to save up to leave. This guy is a treasure. ❤️
2026-10-05 22:22:10
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Ells :
Every time I’d do laundry, I’d hide clothing for me and the baby in a bag in the garage. I did this every week for months. Made a plan with a friend. He’d get me a burner phone and pick me up one night after my husband was asleep. I turned the alarm system on that night, per usual. But had already researched how to silence the keypad. That way, when I turned it off during my escape, he didn’t hear it. It had a remote control that I hid under my pillow. The baby and I wore pajamas that night and I “fell asleep” with him in my arms on top of the covers. I waited for my husband to start snoring and checked the time. My ride should be outside by now, so I eased off the bed, grabbed the alarm remote, snuck out of the bedroom, closed the door behind me, and looked out of the family room window. He was out there. So, I snuck down the stairs while disarming the alarm with the remote, sleeping baby in hand. I entered the garage, opened the exterior garage door, grabbed the bag I’d been secretly stuffing, hopped in my friend’s car and left. He handed me the burner phone and drive us from Arizona to California. That baby is now 28 and I’m writing this from Los Angeles. We made it out. We survived.
2026-10-20 06:28:21
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chambers071825
Chambers071825 :
As a victim of DV myself. I would most def volunteer my time for this.
2026-10-06 11:29:37
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sydigital
sydigital :
I called 911 and put the phone down while he was attacking me and they heard everything.. police kicked down the door minutes later and hauled him to jail. That's how I got free.
2026-10-20 04:23:33
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Janny Lynn🇨🇦 :
I was saved this way and my three children. It was done so well that my children didn’t even know what was happening.
2026-10-06 06:09:14
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sasy.squatch
Sasy.Squatch :
My mom finally left after my dad water boarded and strangled me. Through her work as an RN, she knew people who knew ppl who knew ppl. We hid in safe houses and shelters for about 1.5y. He spent that whole time hunting me because I was "his" kid. After the divorce he was never allowed in a room alone with me again. Died when I was 16. Thank God.
2026-10-06 01:39:47
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audreyschwing143
Audrey Schwing143 :
I have a biker gang that lives on my street and they help women get out of abusive relationships nothing this detailed but they protect her while she gets her stuff and leave s
2026-10-06 08:07:47
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feathersandbeaks6
feathers-and-beaks :
I ran from my ex. His friend felt sorry for me and left his car in our apartment complex and handed me the keys. It saved my life. I drove from Dallas Texas to Memphis TN and straight to my friend who worked as a police officer. My ex came after me and made false police reports against me. My cop friend handled all police. Without the help of these 2 men I would not have made it.
2026-10-06 19:27:12
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jjthejeeppgh
JJ the Jeep :
when i lived in NC my house was a safe house. I took in 20 women and 1 has reached out since to have a safe place while traveling. because he was still tracking her a decade and a half later.
2026-10-05 23:37:45
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Jen :
My abuser would not let me use my phone. I was never allowed alone and was held hostage. He kept calling me crazy so I agreed with him and went to the drs and on the s. ideation questions I answered yes to everything. I told the hospital to hold me no information until I got into a safe house. He was so mad, but it got me free. Do what you need to do so you can get free.
2026-10-06 05:17:19
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justinbroom74
Broomizo :
I do i volunteer or work for this service
2026-10-05 21:38:46
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