@the_lady_j_: Replying to @✨BrooklynTheCat✨ #menhavestoriesaboutwomen #menarevictimstoo #likeitornotitstrue #theyredoublingdown

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putainxll
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not that I'm disagreeing but you say you're a feminist yey you don't have a single video about what women go through , only men men men
2026-10-05 17:03:34
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galilsxmlu8
galilsxmlu8 :
My former partner suffered from bipolar disorder. During our relationship, I took on a significant amount of responsibility for her and her six-year-old son. I also took care of the household, the bills, and her dog. Throughout the relationship, I experienced repeated infidelity. She cheated on me five times. Despite this, I was frequently made to feel that the problems within the relationship were my fault. For approximately three years, I tried to cope with the situation while increasingly experiencing emotional pressure and manipulation. Eventually, I decided that the relationship had to end and asked her to leave the home. I deliberately chose a weekend when her son was staying with his biological father, so that he would not have to witness the confrontation or be exposed to the situation. During the process of her leaving the home, the situation escalated and became physically violent. I was punched approximately five times and was also struck in the face with a door. The events had a significant impact on me. After approximately three years of what had become a highly distressing and emotionally damaging relationship, I sought professional psychological help in order to process what had happened and regain my mental and emotional stability. I am now happily married and have a son with my wife. My current relationship and family life are fundamentally different. I experience mutual respect, stability, commitment and support within my family, with the well-being of our family being a priority for both of us. Looking back, I am particularly grateful that I eventually found the strength to end the previous relationship, seek professional help and rebuild my life. I am now in a stable and loving family environment, and I consider that one of the most important positive changes in my life.
2026-10-07 12:29:42
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musfira._.36
offlienx :
A guy in my class told me his older sister graped him, and he also had wounds on his stomach.
2026-10-06 12:54:43
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user6033410171
user6033410171 :
I was abused by my X. mentally and physically
2026-10-05 17:44:51
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pizzabullar_44
Pizzabullar34 :
We love you Lady j thank you✌️
2026-10-07 13:06:17
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katiesawesomereposts2
𑣲.ᴋᴀᴛɪᴇ⋆˚꩜。™ :
It goes both waysssssss
2026-10-07 09:43:28
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isaac.russell48
Isaac Russell :
I got hit over the head with a Chromebook and the girl who did it got a one day lunch detention
2026-10-06 20:52:08
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larrymcdonald62
Larry :
There are no cinderellas just like there's no Prince charmings.\nIs not gonna come right in to get you?And she's not gonna wear the glass slipper.
2026-10-07 11:35:19
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titotyrone
Tito :
I was m0l3st3d by different women from childhood into my late teens. Adult women. And It caused a perversion that carried on into early adulthood. My first child was born out of this kind of situation. It was received as a badge of honor by other men. When we would hear about a female teacher or babysitter we would joke "Why would you tell?" but it caused me to have a bad opinion about women and lead to me mistreating females. Now I'm old and a father to 5 daughters and that has caused me to regret my actions in the past and grew a respect for women. My point is people can be bad to people, its not just a one sided story. Its a people story and not a man over woman thing.
2026-10-06 01:04:26
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semperfidordie
BlueBloods :
YEAH ! Being EMASCULATED NO JOKE
2026-10-07 09:33:35
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kiracoldyt19
𝐸𝓃𝓋𝓎✝️ :
I have been mistreated by a few women, and accused of stuff etc, a lot of mental abuse, stress, heartbreak and other stuff. But I don’t hate women, as much as I could hate women in general I don’t, because I know not all women are the same. I mean there are a lot that are similar, but there are good women also. same with men, I won’t hate on a whole gender because of a few bad experiences. I’m not immature like that, I do hope you have a good day whoever sees this and I hope you don’t comment criticism etc, what I’ve said is true. if you can’t accept that just ignore it, anyways have a good day, god bless.
2026-10-06 10:47:50
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jeffery.enstien
Jeffery Enstien🏝️ :
A girl pepper sprayed me because I offered to buy her a drink
2026-10-07 00:26:37
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alexanderbush80
alexanderbush80 :
1st girlfriend i had was abusive she had problems i was 10..... she was 11/12 and I can't even remember her name if you know you know
2026-10-07 03:51:18
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russell.goebel8
Russell Goebel :
I was r*ped in retaliation for not being able to finish in bed when losing my virginity, and the overton window has shifted so far in one direction that I felt intense shame over whether my not finishing was itself abusive and very little time thinking I deserved any consideration as a victim. Almost every relationship I have had has been just as lopsided; I would never yell at a partner, but I have had women punch walls because dinner wasn't on time (in non-mission-critical circumstances). Me being silent after being mocked turned into accusations that I was defensive or stonewalling. A couples therapist failed to assess for abuse and blamed me while my partner was abusing and discarding me, and the therapist joined in, complementing them for how much empathy they must have to have been with me.
2026-10-06 04:41:05
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lorddarquaviousthe_third
lorddarquaviousthe_third :
Lady j is the goat
2026-10-05 17:02:02
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gaster1984
Gaster :
Greatest woman off all time
2026-10-05 17:13:33
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andyman6608
andyman6608 :
A friend paid child support for 18yrs before finding out the kid wasn't his. she knew all the time. he's still heart broken
2026-10-05 18:46:39
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cj1234752
CJ1234 :
it's so truly sad how many people fully believe with their whole heart that only women can be victims of a relationship
2026-10-06 01:45:09
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junebug5194
rose madder :
heard this story, a male called the police 'cause his female partner was physically abusing him. the police asked if he raised his voice or if she was defending herself. males just don't report abuse as often as they should. especially if the abuse is commited by a female.
2026-10-05 22:45:08
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mpux87
Pux :
Lady J never replies but for the men. I worked almost 90hrs a week while my girlfriend worked 16 then complained to me when I had the audacity to buy an expensive pair of shoes!
2026-10-06 00:08:32
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jiafeiflotok
Jiafei :
Wait so the feminism started because in the past women were mistreated back then? But after the vote for women rights they should be treated equally? They use that in modern days to use against men mistreating them even though Feminism is all about gender equality? not the women are more dominant than men but society always blames men because of the history even though some men aren't always bad people? it's just some women hating men because of who they are thinking they're superior? but the point is everyone is equal and no one should be above it because that's what humanity is all about? respect? kindness? power?
2026-10-05 17:35:57
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braydon0323
braydon buford :
when I was younger my mother would always find the men who were the worst, they would abuse both me and her but she would constantly go back to them even if it meant her child would be put under such abuse. when she met my stepfather everything got worse, he'd beat me and my mother would just watch and allow it to happen, and when he would try to break things off with her she'd constantly make him come back even if we'd be much better without him. His abuse was horrible, but my mother's want of being with a horrible man only dragged us back into it. This shit is a two way road and nobody wants to admit that anymore.
2026-10-05 17:08:36
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lazare_2020
Lazare merlani :
When i was like 11-12 years old i fell down on stairs and injured my hand that seam day my classmate tripped me (was a girl) and injured my leg somehow it was my fault in my teachers eye (she is a woman) then my friend poshed her (my classmate) she fell and injured her hand she was sent home and i head to stay till 7th lesson (coz i'm a man and i could handle more)
2026-10-05 17:30:44
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0o0_0o20
Mr. maldito :P :
I always agree with lady J :P
2026-10-06 00:23:47
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jawzz17
jawzz :
My last girlfriend who I was taking care of her and her son set me up to be robbed and murdered at her apartment. I was shot six times almost 2 years in a hospital bed.
2026-10-06 08:13:05
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