After two months of no contact, mine reached out to apologize, then only gave cold responses after that
2026-10-19 07:38:57
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pumpkinclout :
He came back after several months, offered casual again, I said I don’t wanna do just casual, haven’t heard from him in 5 weeks. Will he actually come back this time
2026-10-05 22:12:27
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Lupe Carmona :
2 months no contact, miss him so much!😢
2026-10-06 05:31:12
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A natural disaster :
Save your sanity, avoid the avoidant and don’t feed into this crap.
2026-10-06 18:16:01
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BlushandBlonde :
Is still about them though. This is bread crumbing…a healthy reconnection would ask how YOU ARe….which they won’t ask
2026-10-06 19:31:24
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selenophile love :
He called I didn’t answer he made his choice 😏
2026-10-06 06:19:24
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Anej :
She stalks me but doesnt reach out or anything its been a good 3 weeks alredy i dont understand what is going on 🙏🙏🙏
2026-10-05 20:15:57
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HardWork_PaysOff_ :
Maybe im just to optimistic. I have dealt with this before. It’s just knowing how to deal with them. They do carry trauma from their past. Once you could break them down. Trust me they can be loyal to the fullest. You just gotta know how to deal with them.
2026-10-07 19:40:03
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GodsPlan23 :
They don’t always come back especially when they moved on
2026-10-06 01:33:10
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stupid girl :
mine always just says "what's up" after years of no contact.
2026-10-06 19:54:52
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Farrukh Khan 🇨🇦🍁 :
There is no contact, not living together anymore move out in a different house no contact, but sharing the snap streaks, random streaks, and I am sending completely blank not watching her stories neither liking her birthday is coming. We had planned what to do now guide me.
2026-10-06 22:37:46
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Basti3512 :
we haven't talked in over 7 months
2026-10-10 10:16:06
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𝕍𝕚𝕣𝕘𝕚𝕟𝕚𝕒 𝕊𝕒𝕦𝕝𝕤 :
Mine always texts with something really normal. Nothing loaded or vulnerable.
2026-10-06 00:54:04
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Jennifer Price :
Why did he ask me for shirts he knows i didn’t take and nothing else after a month of dropping me with no communication
2026-10-06 16:00:47
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Bebè★ :
He called on no caller Id then two days later said “I want you” we started speaking again fell out over a misunderstanding and how I haven’t heard from him 2 weeks 🙄
2026-10-07 22:09:40
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Sanne it is 🇳🇱 :
Is this for both avoidents?? Fearfull and avoidant??
2026-10-08 19:15:51
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🌶️ Umad 🇷🇪 :
100% true. she come back by surprise at my door and she said this weeks before. she leave again after 2 emotional date and she was the one who ask for the second date (last evening before moving at 4h from me but After cold message and 5 days of no contact she talk to me with some warm.
2026-10-06 02:41:26
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velvetsoul :
mine left breadcrumbs on social media and other outlets. I didn't react or respond to it. not even in a month of no contact they deactivated their social media
2026-10-06 19:52:47
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ittakestwo :
Well we share dogs so we see one another weekly in short doses. I don’t text him, well, rarely, when we separate from dog drop offs. It’s been close to 5 months. And he cares, he still offers to play hero, and he has adjusted the dog schedule for me many times. Bought me a hot glue gun when I needed it for the old place we shared, a happy meal after he stayed to watch the dogs as I repaired the carpet stair in September…so he may just be hiding still behind logistics to show care. I hope he comes back as a partner though soon before the year ends
2026-10-06 05:43:03
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wh3retfisk3nny :
Is it okay if I send her flowers every month? She’s an avoidant she broke up with me because she wanted to focus on her school everything got overwhelmed she graduates in May and she said she doesn’t wanna say we will never have second chance but for now she has to focus on herself. I will never wanna give up on her I’m willing to give her space will sending flowers every month annoys her or will be a good thing to miss me back
2026-10-10 02:11:29
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AL Albert315 :
She told me she still loves me she. Hope I know that
2026-10-05 22:37:39
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Melodie :
He reached out today by text. Conversation started just like it would any other day.
2026-10-05 22:07:57
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magnolia_.sfiorita🍐 :
Uff, he's a fearful avoidant, it has been a month and a couple of days. We have seen each other with a mutual friend and he was very embarassed to see me, so it seems. He never gave me signs that he wants me back, except for a couple of small things: he asked me for a shirt back, like, just a couple of days ago. I catch him looking at me (or even staring once lol) when i'm not looking and he texted my best friend and told her that i texted him for some reason (?) whatever. Truth is, he's a cold type of friendly around me, but still much shy. Idk what to think anymore. I feel it in my guts that he still wants me somehow, i just can't prove it. What i know is that he had casual sex with two girls when we were apart, but i'm not sure if that means anything. I'm very confused. It's like the universe is giving me mixed signals.
2026-10-07 12:07:36
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That girl :
As a healing FA doing the inner work…these are literally things I say as well. 😂 It seemed normal as an ice breaker..those also take a lot of emotional effort. We don’t like rejection, don’t trust connections and have fear of commitment.
2026-10-06 03:45:14
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Mukaji-Bonbon 🧿🇨🇩🇺🇸 :
don’t have to be an avoidant to say all this
2026-10-06 03:31:23
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