@notaveryhubert: 📲 Download Converso — link in my bio. There’s a name for this pattern: ghostlighting. They disappear without explanation. Then they come back completely normal. But when you ask what happened? “I was busy.” “You’re overthinking.” “You’re being clingy.” Suddenly, their disappearance isn’t the problem. Your reaction to it is. And eventually, you become afraid to even ask where they went because you don’t want to seem “needy.” 🚨 And this applies to both men and women. Manipulation is not about gender. It’s about using confusion and uncertainty to maintain control. Save this. ✅ Notice when someone repeatedly makes you question reasonable expectations. #Ghostlighting #Gaslighting #Manipulation #Ghosting #Relationships

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