@michblakexo: I really don’t think being older is the problem some men think it is. A man can be 45, 50, 55 and still be far more attractive to me than someone younger. It’s usually the little things. Being confident without showing off. Making me laugh. Actually making a plan instead of texting “what do you wanna do?” 14 times 😂 And being comfortable in your own skin helps a lot. I’m curious though, because I know a lot of men on here are older than me… Has dating actually got harder as you’ve got older? . . . #nycgirl #newyorker #newyorkstate #newyorktimes #newyorkcity