@bella.dane: Having black and white opinions in a gray world is making you miserable

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papipascuali
Metcalfe94 :
For me it’s when people think their opinions are facts
2026-10-06 14:28:42
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kirstyannehair
KIRSTY SAGE :
“The more I learn the less I know” EXACTLY THIS
2026-10-06 06:21:08
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linn_niko
Linni :
Being neutral shows so much confidence
2026-10-05 23:29:29
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becomingsecure
becomingsecure :
As a therapist I have perfected this but it’s a skill you have to learn
2026-10-05 23:25:32
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toobs__
Toobs :
This doesn’t apply to all subjects.
2026-10-07 00:45:54
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thejcbrowning
thejcbrowning :
Genz struggles with this big time
2026-10-08 03:56:39
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danisha.carter
DANISHA CARTER :
great video
2026-10-06 19:45:25
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itsvanessadasilva
Vanessa Da Silva :
seek to understand before you want to be understood.. love that !!
2026-10-05 23:52:54
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krystalthechemist
Krystal :
OH MY GOD THANK YOUUUUUU. it is so fun to inquire, question, debate, without adhering to any one pov. we need to think freely again!
2026-10-05 23:24:58
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karablangin12
Karablangin12 :
Everything is really grey
2026-10-05 23:48:03
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chelsiewrld
chelsea :
nuance is a lost art in a world of complexity. 🖼️
2026-10-06 08:00:49
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ndiiiiiiiiiilo
. :
It’s tiktok I’m telling you, this app is making people dumber
2026-10-06 21:16:30
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reignofsiren
Sirenᥫ᭡ :
i’m learning to be better about this tbh
2026-10-08 04:23:42
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kev_923_10k
Kev_923_10K :
"As the area of our knowledge grows, so too does the perimeter of our ignorance," - Neil DeGrasse Tyson
2026-10-07 07:20:49
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karinamglaze
Karina Glaze :
Omg was just thinking this todayyyy
2026-10-08 03:23:26
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mjgm76
mjgm :
Everything is so subjective !!
2026-10-07 04:20:21
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chiefkea
Kea. :
And more people need to start saying “I’m not well-versed enough on that topic to have a well-educated opinion on it”
2026-10-08 01:48:56
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getthechicagolook
Ms. Truth Teller :
that’s why i stopped talking as much
2026-10-06 22:11:21
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pathlesspoetry
Kristina :
everything you said was eloquent and important! and i completely agree. the lack of the ability to acknowledge or accept nuance (LARGELY caused by social media) is deteriorating our intelligence and empathy. i have always sought to understand, to think about other perspectives and ideas, even if I truly don’t think I’ll ever agree or change my mind on things, or maybe even be able to ever choose a side, but then again, why must I? Why are we so addicted to extremes? The inability to see a full spectrum, to realize you may be wrong or there are just others options or possibilities, is so limiting.
2026-10-06 02:19:43
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mmiadd
Boop :
I really struggle when people try to debate human rights though :( like I almost feel like it’s a place of privilege to be in the grey zone
2026-10-06 07:34:43
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just_jessieb
Jessie :
I love this… I can stay neutral until it’s about basic human rights and then I cannot NOT say something because it feels like I’m not being my authentic self and standing up for what’s right. Ya kno? 🤪
2026-10-06 19:07:32
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abbiesanders23
Abbie Sanderson :
I do agree with this! I am wondering what your thoughts are on people who are too neutral all the time?? Yes, it is good to recognize nuance in all things and we can learn from others, however I think we also live in world where we cling onto other people’s opinions rather than forming our own. I wonder if being too neutral can lead to no opinion at all. Thoughts??
2026-10-06 03:39:52
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kayelease_
Kay Elease🧞‍♀️ :
I’ve always been told “pick a side” because everyone wants to hear my point of view on controversial topics to see what box they can place me in but sometimes it’s GREYY . I’m only 26 sheesh
2026-10-06 13:44:46
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toobs__
Toobs :
Neutrality in some cases causes to side with the wrong side. We are in global crisis of neutrality where we all believe if something doesnt affect us then we shouldn’t have an opinion on it. This is the exact rhetoric that has lead to so many of the global issues
2026-10-07 11:03:08
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peachyy_poms
Meag :
People treat conversations like they need to listen to respond when they should be listening to understand
2026-10-06 19:09:05
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