زہرا 🍁 :
Sab Samia ko negative bolte hain, “attention seeker” aur pata nahi kya kya tags dete hain. Lekin zara ye bhi dekho ke baqi sab yahan kya kar rahe hain? Group mein baith kar doosron ki buraiyan karna, har kisi ko tag dena ke ye negative hai, wo negative hai, aur phir khud ko innocent aur saaf dil show karna ye kaunsi positivity hai?Aur Esra Bibi, aap to har waqt bas Samia, Samia hi karti rehti hain. “Samia ne ye kiya, Samia ne wo kiya, Samia aisi hai, Samia waisi hai.” Matlab har waqt Samia ki buraiyan discuss karna hi reh gaya hai. Agar Samia itni hi negative hai to phir aapko har waqt usi ke bare mein baat karne ki zarurat kyun padti hai? Kisi ko negative kehne se pehle apne behaviour ka bhi self-check kar lena chahiye.samia ki ek baat zaroor hai ke jo bhi karti hai, sab ke samne karti hai. Shayad isi baat ko uski galti bana diya gaya hai. Jo karti hai openly karti hai, sab ko nazar aa jata hai. Kam az kam baqi logon ki tarah peeth peeche baith kar buraiyan nahi karti.Aap kehti hain ke “main jhoot nahi bolti” aur “main bohat saaf dil hoon”, lekin phir yahan baith kar doosron ki buraiyan karna kya hai? Fasih ki Ami ke bare mein aap ne jo kaha, Samia ki maa ke bare mein jo baat ki, aur baad mein mukar gayin ke “maine aisa kuch nahi bola” phir ye kya tha? Sirf baat se mukar jane se sach change nahi ho jata.Aur abhi Barbrik ke bare mein bhi itna kuch bola ke wo jaan boojh kar Zaib ki jagah le raha hai. Lekin phir usi Barbrik ke samne baith kar hans hans kar baatein karna aur bilkul normal behave karna ye kya hai? Peeth peeche kuch aur aur samne kuch aur, isay saaf dili nahi kehte.Yahi to asal issue hai. Doosron ko negative, fake aur problematic kehna bohat easy hai, lekin kabhi apne actions bhi dekhne chahiye. Samia jo karti hai, openly karti hai, isi liye sab ko nazar aa jata hai. Lekin peeth peeche kisi ki burai karna aur phir usi person ke samne bilkul different behave karna isay simply double standards kehte hain.Is liye har baat ka villain Samia ko banane se pehle zara apna bhi behaviour dekh lo. Negativity sirf ek person mein nahi hoti; kabhi kabhi doosron ki buraiyan karte karte hum khud bhi usi negativity ka part ban jate hain.
2026-10-06 09:37:22