Anaita - Sell Anything Online
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Tuesday 06 October 2026 07:12:52 GMT
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Jackie Asamoah :
I think this is also ego driven (to your point). when someone is on the climb a lot of people feel like they’re directly contributing to it and are helping you get there. some people want to feel like they personally gave you that accomplishment and the self esteem/confidence that comes with it. But once people think (even if it’s not based on reality) that you no longer need them, they turn cold. There’s no longer the illusion that they’re helping you get there. It no longer (in their eyes) centers them. I think that’s why when someone gets cancelled the first thing they often target is things you’ve built. They think they’ve given it to you and should be able to take it away anytime they want. It’s an incredibly cold and one-sided way to support someone because it’s not healthy to center oneself when supporting another person.
2026-10-06 16:49:15
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Shannon Dooley🇦🇺 :
Yep. Absolutely done with tall poppy syndrome and bullying and toxic envy and jealousy. Seriously considering moving to the US.
2026-10-06 11:38:03
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Dawn Nelio :
100% they relate to the struggle but if you start succeeding they no longer see themselves in your story.. it just is the way it is
2026-10-06 12:50:16
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TheStoryKeeper :
Kenyans' reaction to Kaluma boy.
2026-10-06 13:04:53
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Fran in Vienna :
In Jamaica we call this badmind
2026-10-06 11:23:30
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Emily LUISE skin™ 🇦🇺 :
This makes me so sad. 😞. When people are successful this should make us motivated to know we can do it too if they can do it?
2026-10-06 07:36:55
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L.p :
So basically aim higher?!
2026-10-06 10:13:02
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Khanyisile Nkabinde💻👾 :
We see that all over we prefer someone living in a shack and call it authentic but once their lives improved the views dwindle
2026-10-06 11:44:19
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Avela :
This is also in South Africa
2026-10-06 16:19:53
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1dclown :
this is an amazing video, deserves so much traction!
2026-10-06 07:22:12
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inna :
You see this even in pop stars. The internet will hype someone up and do everything to make them famous. And when they are, they’ll start hating on them.
2026-10-06 11:52:33
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Yasie ✮⋆˙ :
It ruined my whole life. I’m strong but it was awful 🥺
2026-10-06 11:22:48
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DrBaddie🧚🏾♂️ :
So evil eye kinda
2026-10-06 11:50:04
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Rob Menob :
This was so beautifully explained, and bring clarity to what I’m seeing but not fully understanding
2026-10-06 10:06:03
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bnn.!3 :
its a way to restore equilibrium within selves. when familiarity becomes unfamiliar just like anything & everything most experience that discomfort negatively rather than with curiosity.
2026-10-06 09:28:27
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itsjucien on IG :
In the philippines we call this the crab mentality. You pull people down when they're getting higher.
2026-10-06 15:11:56
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LittleOne :
I love that people are finally talking about this and hopefully it can help people start to change their frame of thought
2026-10-06 09:22:50
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Neon Active :
So sad that this happens 😔 Thank you for talking about this
2026-10-06 09:48:53
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r8mysteez :
Most Aussies are cool but they just tdont like someone else being a braggart or show off because it makes us feel bad about our own short comings which are many - for example in America if you’re not in the football team you don’t exist and if you don’t get accepted and finish a good college what even are you
2026-10-06 13:14:48
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✨Zule Redes ✨🍁🍂 :
Llevo años hablando de eso, porque mal gente a actuado así en horditas rabiosas simplemente porque algo en no les incomodó y es más fácil inventarte chismes o buscarte el fallo invisible que mirarse así mismos y hacer algo al respecto
2026-10-06 16:23:23
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HUSNA :
Jealous people are so pathetic honestly, and they’re literally only hurting themselves. Just be happy for those around you, you won’t lose by being happy for them 🤷🏾♀️
2026-10-06 15:36:01
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BadGyalDiva :
people need to be aware how self centered they are. it'll help u understand the world a lot more
2026-10-06 13:18:41
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Nouri :
They want to see you win but never be better than them
2026-10-06 11:21:29
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helenasimone__ :
You explained this so well! Can we make a social group in Australia that has events for people that are not like this. It’s exhausting!!! And not like a typical boring networking event with speakers etc but one with activities that facilitate deeper connection and is a low pressure event or meet up’s. Bc this year I’ve lived away from Australia half the year in Greece and as soon as I get back I will do all the logistics to leave Australia as a tax resident and live away half the year. But when I’m there this kind of energy is so draining to be around bc some people are obviously this way and others have tall poppy syndrome subconsciously because the culture has it embedded in them so well where it’s their body language, the way they talk to you, the things they say without realising how and why they’ve said it etc.. Australia is so beautiful but idk lately its energy is not a high vibrational place!
2026-10-06 10:13:23
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elly :
That’s because people haven’t learned how to use comparison to motivate themselves. There’s a large body of work that explores this and it’s something to do with up vs downward comparison. It sounds like this tall poppy research uses some of that work but I learned about it in my undergrad degree years ago. I think a lot of it was based on social media comparisons and locality which I found interesting. Upward comparisons can have insane positive benefits but the key is explicitly teaching people how to compare upward/downward in healthy or positive ways. Kind of impossible when the large majority of our population are dysregulated, starving, broke, and well… the literacy crisis but IMAGINE.
2026-10-06 12:43:12
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