🏳️🌈🧙♀️👭Lea👭🧙♀️🏳️🌈 :
Yes! My children all contribute to Christmas dinner, and Christmas morning brunch. They offered. My son buys all the baking supplies I need to do baking with my grandchildren over December (he actually asks for a list from me and goes out to buy it for me as well). I actually don't pay for anything but I do all the baking and cooking.
I am like you. I start saving in January. For my children, I buy them 1 or 2 things they want, and then make them a few gifts...candles, vanilla extract, teas, high quality home remedies, natural cleaning supplies, wreaths, living wall art, etc. Then for my grandchildren I do 'something they want, something they need, something to wear, something to read' rule. Then, I do stockings for all of them...which is a lot!
I also purchase pre-made gingerbread house kits for my grandchildren for Christmas Eve and then buy extra candy for them as it is way less expensive than doing everything from scratch.
I have a small list outside of my immediate family, thankfully. A large handful of friends, and a couple of family members.
I am doing more like you...intentional, high quality purchases, and less fillers. I pick things up throughout the year if I see something someone on my list would really like. Just to offset the pressure of having to buy a lot in a short amount of time.
Because I am able to make so much, and that in itself is an expense, I start making things early on in the year as well.
Now, if I were to add up everything...the food, baked goods, elf 'things', items/ingredients to makes gifts, actual gifts, stockings, children's craft things, and few new decorations, etc, etc, etc...it would still be a ridiculously high bill...which is why it is so important to start in January!💗
2026-10-06 14:26:27