@ashleahoess: Know the difference #DatingAdvice #Dating #relationships #relationshipadvice #fyp

Stupidgdlkg :

Detachment sounds allot like confidence, you don’t care about what happens, if it’s meant to be it’s meant to be, and you don’t worry about it.

dustyandhappy :

Women want to know you care so long as you rarely show it

Himothy :

Im not begging you to stay baby but i choose you. If you wanna leave, plenty would love to take your spot.

KAOSBEATS :

just Go gym lads Read books Build a business and be out of the way 💪 👏 and if that dont work out: Walk Away 👍

Sharky2828 :

Nonchalant

RVlifelover :

So the problem I see as a 57 year old single man in this culture today, is that the Gen Z women are mistaking the f boy for a supposed healthy detached man. The men are being taught to create situationships masked as being detached and women are drawn to this because it triggers their insecurities not healthy developing relationships where communication is used to knock down those fears. My ✌️

Abdogbtw S :

if I need to be detached and unavailable for the person I love, that means I lost completely feelings to you and there is genuinely no in between the day I become detached or unavailable to a thing no matter what love the person I was even obsessed with shows me, there will be no return ever, in if love is always this way (I know its not) let me be single for ever

Kelvin2.0™️💠 :

reasonable

Roiy Frenkel :

choose me😂

Skywalker :

wouldn't of thought you were previously anxious

JOR :

Easy as don’t be all over her learn give her some space time to time.

beetex2 :

Damn this is good stuff. Well said.

Charlie :

100%

Ken Chew ♌️ :

That should be the attitude.

ryan.h545 :

So.. nonchalant 😂

Deandre Whitfield780 :

amen sister

Chris :

In love

Orlando :

Facts

johnnymac :

Yes

user :

It's the same thing, emotional intelligence is better

🔥🥁🎶🥂jaw•_•breaker🥂🎶🥁🔥 :

Yes! Love this my friend!!!!! I’ve been in the detachment phase for a couple yrs now. I’ve dated some girls that was not. Mainly due to them either being emotionally unavailable or emotionally unintelligent. Or,… because all they knew was physical intimacy and that’s what they wanted the connection to be between us. Just another name on their roster.🙄 Even after me telling them that I want and I believe a great relationship must first be built on a strong, deep level of emotional connection and attachment first. And that the physical connection will fall into place and hopefully balance out over time with the emotional connection. They would agree with me and go with it for a few weeks and then once they realized that I was serious about not wanting to jump right into bed with them or spend hrs making out and touching them everywhere on their body that could lead me to doing things I would regret, they would either distant themselves from me, pull back the relationship, or just ghost me after they came to their senses that I wasn’t going to budge on my values and boundaries. My character doesn’t change for anyone!!! If someone is not emotionally intelligent, they have no business trying to get into a relationship with someone looking for something serious, specific, and special. I’m getting so tired of people putting on a fake ass front just to try to get something they want out of someone and not caring one bit about hurting me if I actually start to fall for her. When they realize they’re not getting what they want, they will leave you and not think twice about the fact that you have a heart and feelings too. It’s so damn frustrating! And,… what’s funny is I’ve actually had them reach back out to me and apologized and want to try again to make it work.🙄 I’m like, nope, I’m good babe! You had your chance and you threw me to the side like I was nothing more than a dirty pair of socks. So take your roster and your wishes and go find someone else to play with because I’m not the guy for you.😁🙏🥂🤌🏼🥂

UNCfromPhilly :

djskinnyguy :

If I’m detached, I’m probably not gonna pick up on any clues they are interested in me.

user07157473175 :

new look 🙀

Jobe Allen Stonefish :

We are programmed to be attached since we were born … 🌹 attached to outcomes we receive outside of us 🌹 some sort of recognition or validation in order to feel loved or accepted by others in some form…🌹 so after we learn the futility and see the patterns or cycles of chasing something or someone 🌹 and the pain and suffering of 🌹that’s when you stop caring about pleasing people at your own expense 🌹and realize you have the power to choose yourself 🌹 so you begin know yourself through awareness of self observation 🌹❤️and self love ❤️everything else will eventually fall into place over a persistence focused effort of positive self empowering actions 🌹❤️