Know Thyself Podcast
Region: KR
Tuesday 06 October 2026 15:30:31 GMT
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the_crass_lass :
heard years ago, "kindness with expectation is manipulation." and that stuck with me.
2026-10-06 19:39:20
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MomHood Network :
The woman who owned the coffee shop didn’t see the debt as a burden for her. You saw it as a burden for you. Trying to save people for ourselves is a big lesson for us especially empaths.
2026-10-06 19:08:40
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Sequoia :
I love that she wasn’t offended and i love that she is being transparent about wanting praise etc
2026-10-06 18:38:16
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Andrei :
It’s always the wrong person getting the payoff
2026-10-06 17:11:40
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yummysherryhar :
She’s probably autistic my daughter has the same reactions
2026-10-06 17:20:08
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Walking Shoes 🐾 :
In Swahili there is a saying, “tenda wema nenda zako”. Basically translates to “do good and be on your way”.
2026-10-06 18:00:57
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Deety :
Everybody is talking about her reaction but what about charging her the coffee. Sorry this is being ungrateful.
2026-10-06 21:28:07
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𝖒𝖎𝖈𝖍 ♥️ :
I love that she saw her as incredible not getting mad at her - what a smart amazing woman
2026-10-06 17:44:14
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Ken 🇨🇦 :
Still charged for the coffee. 😂😂😂😂
2026-10-06 17:11:58
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Ascoyne :
Nah. That went too far. She can’t give you a cup of coffee? That’s just gross.
2026-10-06 23:53:12
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where am i :
This is just cope. It’s okay to expect gratitude at a scale commensurate with the gift, and it’s okay to call out a lack of gratitude
2026-10-06 23:23:53
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imane209 :
I would cry if someone did this for me
2026-10-06 17:31:15
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S Marie :
Giving is technically a selfish act. We do it because it makes us feel good. Giving without a payoff … without anyone knowing… that’s when you know you’re giving selflessly.
2026-10-06 18:42:24
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LEARN_ED :
thats crazy tho
2026-10-07 00:15:57
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Mariah :
i dont like if someone praises me for any help. you dont even have to thank me, and please do not bring it back up again.
2026-10-07 00:33:32
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راكان العتيبي :
If I lent someone $100 and they paid it back on time, it would be a nice gesture for them to show some appreciation—buying me a cup of coffee, for example. But showing no gratitude at all is not good behavior in any sense, and it can’t really be interpreted as something positive.😤
2026-10-07 00:22:45
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Dsjude :
i am 💯 sure she was extremely grateful ☺️
2026-10-07 00:17:21
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Jezzamezza :
It’s interesting because I used to volunteer for a charity and receive material donations on their behalf and I saw a lot of people disappointed when y wasn’t euphoric when I received what they donated.
2026-10-07 00:14:46
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Retire2live :
Come on. It’s human nature to expect a thank you with real feelings behind it. That is not a normal reaction.
2026-10-06 19:54:35
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edimotltd :
Try me 🤣🤣. I will message you everyday to thank you 😂
2026-10-06 17:40:39
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sckb9 :
Extremely reasonable to want someone to say thank you when gifted 20k 💀
2026-10-06 18:41:38
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jilpy🐸🇨🇦 :
no gratitude is not incredible, not even a coffee on the house, wow
2026-10-06 20:47:16
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Rita Ebere Offormah :
Hmmmmm. In as much as I totally agree that we should give without expecting anything in return, the receiver should learn to show gratitude. It’s up to you not to care about the reaction but I really believe showing gratitude is equally important
2026-10-06 22:46:48
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hakunamatada92 :
That’s deceptively arrogant
2026-10-06 20:51:44
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Reba :
I think many people here are missing the point. She’s not so much interrogating the recipient’s lack of a grand expression of gratitude, as she is her expectation of one. Had she known before the woman would react that way, would she still have offered the money?
2026-10-06 18:57:47
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