@misterpjm: The fact that my mom is dead isn’t surprising to me anymore. Yes, she died. It sucks. I am sad. I miss her. But what consistently shocks me is that she is *never* coming back. I saw her body before they cremated her and that was it. That was the last time. How? These people are the pillars in our life. They make us who we are. For better or for worse. And when they die, we have to figure out who we are again. Without them. For the rest of forever. This grief is heavy and unlike anything I’ve experienced in my life. And without my mom being dead, I wouldn’t be here. With you all. Grieving. Together. They might be gone, but we are here together. You are not alone out there. I love you. It’s true. I’ll see you when I see you. • • • • • #griefandloss #lifeafterloss #griefandhealing #grievingprocess #grieftok
I just found my 35 year old husband on the floor dead friday and im struggling
2026-10-06 16:57:02
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Stubbs :
im a grown woman and idk if this sounds stupid but it feels like im an orphan. and ik that sounds stupid. but it just feels like the ppl i belonged to..they're gone and now i just belong to noone. idk.
2026-10-07 04:27:12
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Lyn :
Not only are they gone but where did they go ,
2026-10-07 00:48:28
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CJ :
Been 18 years and I'm forever walking around shell shocked that my mom is dead [Broken heart]
2026-10-13 23:37:28
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kathleen :
My mother died when I was twenty four years old and I’m fifty seven. It never goes away. I miss her every day.
2026-10-06 20:32:12
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obscure words :
my fiance passed in her sleep 2 weeks ago. im not doing well.
2026-10-06 21:22:16
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sxmb21 :
I’m 28. My mom passed when I was 25. I’m an only child. I’m single. No other family that is fully involved. She’s all I had. I left with her that day.
2026-10-07 02:24:19
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itzeebitzee :
The random “oh I’m gonna tell my mom…..” and then realizing.. you can’t..
2026-10-06 22:57:43
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🐍Oz🐍🥷 :
How do they not exist anymore 😔
2026-10-07 13:37:17
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Joanna :
NOT comparing at all but my dog died a month ago and I turned to my husband last night and said exactly that!! "I can't believe Tucker is dead!" It's surreal. Sending hugs!!!! Sucks!!!!!
2026-10-06 21:32:08
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dw :
Yup my mom died in her sleep 2 days before my 50 th birthday. My dinner was at her house but my aunt did it for me and we cried the whole time 🥹 I lost my dad 8 months later and my baby brother died aged 42. My parents were 67. I’m all by myself and I’m so sad all the time ☹️💔🌹🌹🌹😩😕
2026-10-07 11:34:10
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CrystalPlays94 :
It's been 22 years since my dad passed away and I know that feeling.
2026-10-13 16:20:03
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Gregsgirl :
Can we stop using the word “dead” I dislike that word very much. It’s so final. I always say passed on. It brings me comfort to know that she “passed” on or transformed. I know she exists in some form. It’s been 16 years and my mind still can’t comprehend she was here and now she’s not. I know there’s a beauty in passing from what I’ve studied on NDE’s. And that brings me some comfort. But I’ll never be the same person I was when she was here.
2026-10-06 20:28:30
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Gene Baughman :
My Mom died in December 2022 and it took me 8 months to get to a better mental state but I still struggle with it daily. The sense of loss is agonizing at times. 💔
2026-10-13 08:36:38
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Shelby Jean Bathe :
My dads been gone since 2019 and I feel this everyday
2026-10-13 16:57:50
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VannahJadeee :
I found my people in these comments 🥹 I miss my mom so much.
2026-10-10 11:44:26
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Mama🌻T🌻 :
I’m 54 and living in a world without my parents is terrifying
2026-10-13 12:16:46
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jo :
I still can't believe either that my mom is dead.I was just wondering if it's normal to still feel this way after 8 mths.so thank u .
2026-10-13 08:58:30
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Austin Thorsen :
I miss my mom every day.
2026-10-07 05:28:55
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Chelsea :
It’s been a year and a half since my dad passed and I randomly started crying on my way home today, and I thought to myself, “is this going to happen to me the rest of my life?” 🥺
2026-10-06 22:20:10
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Crystal :
I lost my oldest daughter… it was a complete nightmare!! I also lost my 23 year long marriage after she passed. Grief is so weird! One day you’re ok then the next you’re a hot mess!!
2026-10-10 09:30:44
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xoxo_anna157 :
Almost 2 years for me as well. Seriously, why the fuck is she dead?
2026-10-06 19:59:07
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PandaGarden :
great big fucking hole in my life that never goes away.
2026-10-06 20:56:25
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irenetellez856 :
I couldn’t understand how the world kept turning and everyone kept moving and going on with their lives without my mom here. Don’t these people know my mom isn’t here anymore.
2026-10-07 03:49:44
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Valerie :
Every. Fucking . Day. I spend hours in therapy saying, “I’m still so confused.” Because it’s not possible that MY mom, my sun, moon, stars, and everything between is just gone.
2026-10-06 20:51:07
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