@heyladybytania: Who is Society? And while we’re at it, who are Them and They? Because I’ve never met any of these people, yet somehow they have y’all in a chokehold. “Society says…” “They say…” “People think…” WHO? At some point, you have to decide what YOU think. I don’t know Society, Them, or They, and I’m not letting strangers run my life.