@bmax89: It still hurts because you care deeply

mmartinez99148 :

It makes me feel foolish to care so much in comparison to how little they seemed to care

Robin Mangini :

You are the FIRST person that has truly explained how we feel and how we don’t know how long it will last and not rush everything

ChanelRedd1of1💋 :

The amount of honesty and cuss words used touched my soul…thank you ❤️

Kelly Jarvis :

I have been grieving a WLW discard for going on five months and sometimes I feel very discouraged and you are extremely helpful! Thank you. I’m trying to be patient with myself.

dantaviasteph_cre :

Naw… i need this shyt to end… they didn’t deserve that tenderness

kat :

cannot stop measuring my grief up against theirs, and i find it discouraging sometimes to hear my feelings are proof of how much it mattered because their lack of feelings about it prove the inverse :( it’s so hard.

PlantieMommy :

Grieving the loss of a 30 year marriage is so much harder than I’d imagined… divorced 4 years, still in progress.

AceReporter :

My best friend and I didn’t speak for six months over something that he calls a misunderstanding and I call a trauma response. Fortunately we worked things out because if we hadn’t I would still be spiraling from tome to time and tripping over “grief glitter.”

⋆˚࿔ val 𝜗𝜚˚⋆ :

I’m tired of crying everyday it sucks

mallik.803 :

This explains why I am still grieving and she has moved on.

Chelsea :

I’m tired of this grandpa 🥹😩

willowdaff :

Even years? Like 2?

eyekombo :

It’s been debilitating, and I’ve been feeling so bad about it. Thank you for saying this.

PepperWitchPNW :

Okay, but I don’t want to care anymore

Paxux :

🥺 Thank you. Been feeling guilty for still grieving

EvanW :

The glitter is such a good comparison

user360660569765 :

Thank you. This is so hard. It hurts. It hurts even more knowing he just moved on with someone else. While I’m here just devastated.

Symone ☽ ⋆˙⟡ :

Thank you 🥲💓

Betty Ann Rutherford :

So helpful! You’re a Queen Dr. B!

Caleb :

I needed this so much today

ArabellaMariposa :

And it doesn’t help that this person likes to come in and out of my life so I am never able to truly heal. I cared so much and it hurt so bad and he knows that and then he pops tf back up

landasimpson :

You know, I needed to hear this

Cdub :

Melissa 🌸 :

The way you explained it was so good!!! and someone grieving my marriage after infidelity it has been hard and it’s almost a year later. But I pray to God every time I get a negative thought and he truly brings peace.

Schaatt :

This post is so helpful! Thank you!