There was no doubt in my mind that the person was Black. It’s only us asking that stupid question to each other
2026-10-07 17:34:44
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kaylaodidison :
Natural hair isn’t the problem. The standard is
2026-10-07 02:04:31
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𓆩ꨄ︎𓆪 𝙖𝙨𝙝𝙡𝙚𝙮 :
like why is hiding ur hair w someone else’s considered done
2026-10-07 13:54:23
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bee_wendair :
And they will never say this to a biracial/mixed girlie. I'm sorry but I had to say it.
2026-10-07 12:39:40
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Kita 💖 :
Nooo because this morning, tell me why my ma said I was single because of my natural hair and that why I can’t attract anyone… But I don’t feel the need to not be me to attract a man.
2026-10-09 11:26:05
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kiki :
def something we need to deconstruct in our community. we've normalized everything but letting our natural hair breathe with no manipulation
2026-10-07 04:01:18
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itsmekikey :
You look a bit like Megan Good
2026-10-09 23:22:18
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Zharya ♡🎀 :
It’s so annoying because why do we have to be held to a high standard😭
2026-10-07 05:59:09
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TJAY(Team black)HOTD :
Yep, I decided to do a cute twist out, edges laid and everything. Ex bf asked me why not just wear a wig instead…. ( he was black)😭
2026-10-07 23:27:46
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Moo :
Not only detachment but once you realize what the standard is rooted in it honestly makes you not want to be a part of it/attempt to meet it (which is impossible for most anyway), in the first place
2026-10-07 14:35:41
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SiD :
Sick of ts it’s so annoying
2026-10-07 05:03:00
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sierrashavawn :
I had a guy tell me that I should get a wig, mind you I have long locs down my back
2026-10-08 22:38:48
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Dorcas M :
That’s crazy😭😭
2026-10-07 01:04:41
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aliyahjuliana_ :
Like helloooo it is done
2026-10-07 02:26:05
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edits.hr.st :
We need to start following our own standards
2026-10-08 22:54:35
9
Gianna💜 :
And they love to fake pump saying they prefer natural hair
2026-10-07 14:05:38
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estiee_m :
Some Reall shhh for real I literally did a half up half down today and I just felt weird because too many people were commenting on the length, and I got so self conscious because it was one of the days I had no idea what to do with it 😩
2026-10-07 01:21:37
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NaturalMermaid🇺🇸 :
My hair done the minute it comes out the follicle
2026-10-08 18:26:16
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cobainsplace :
straight hair just be flat laying there & no one says anything about it needing to be done
2026-10-07 16:43:02
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Etoria 🌼 :
Then they criticize us for wearing extensions and wigs. Like mind up your mind
2026-10-07 21:29:08
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LovineA :
I think they mean well, just correct them in the moment. Unfortunately most black people also only believe in white beauty standards… when I first went natural my mum would ask me all the time… and like after one hair of her being EXPOSED to my hair as it is, she had a new version of my done and undone hair. She stopped asking and is usually even surprised now when I braid it. And ironically she has become very proud of it over time. Now SHE advises people on how to take care of hair based on what she observed me do [Tears of joy]
2026-10-07 05:39:40
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TSHANI :
wilddddd
2026-10-07 00:36:37
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Jasquirks2 :
"Done"= straightened to them
2026-10-07 14:56:11
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