@r3formedwallflower: These big families often have the older children helping, especially the girls. #childfree #bigfamily #parentification #Siblings

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xochitl4818
Xochitl :
I helped raised 5 kids. I’m now married and CHILDFREEEEEEE. My mother begged me for grandchildren, I told her you don’t need to be a grandma the same way I didn’t need a childhood🥴😂
2026-10-07 15:13:59
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indicaari3
indicaari3 :
They better have 11 bedrooms
2026-10-07 14:08:37
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anonymous68789
Anonymous :
And the parents always think it’s funny too…
2026-10-07 14:07:01
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darkstarryeyes_
✨ Elizabeth✨ :
Parentification is truly the reason I don’t want kids.
2026-10-07 14:01:01
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desertdweller08
DesertDweller :
This is a weird fetish it’s disgusting
2026-10-07 15:51:44
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whenlifegivesyougaylemon
MakeGayLemonade :
When I see a "big family," I know for a fact Mom doesn't love those kids and Dad hates all their asses.
2026-10-07 13:17:04
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prettychlorilla
Cornell’s Jane Doe :
The two oldest look more like the parents than the parents…
2026-10-07 14:30:36
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rachael_samanthaa
rachael_samanthaa :
I know that oldest is TIREDDDD
2026-10-07 13:46:48
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zoethenarcissist
ひ🧟‍♀️📿 :
Notice how the oldest are annoyed
2026-10-07 13:48:53
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tara_michelle13
Tara Michelle :
"We have no idea why our 2 oldest kids don't ever come to visit us."
2026-10-07 19:36:50
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charli.ward
Charli Ward :
The older kids just need to start doing this when mom announces 🤷🏻‍♀️
2026-10-07 13:46:34
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tonsofdogslivehere
Victoria :
They trying to say in the comments that they don’t ask the older kids to help… sure Jan.
2026-10-07 14:04:50
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gleamyguts
London♡ྀིྀིྀིྀིྀི :
I’ve lived it and it’s horrible. Video breaks my heart
2026-10-07 13:59:50
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rat_in_the_h0use
Brian Lackey :
It’s terrible bc if they choose to actually be kids and stop raising the kids, the younger children will just get neglected which must make them feel so guilty :(
2026-10-07 13:31:28
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icyblurry
📍 :
I feel awful for the oldest two ☹️
2026-10-07 21:00:58
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itsmoo13
M :
their oldest kids are definitely carrying a heavy burden
2026-10-07 20:59:42
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ivas006
Iva S 🍉 :
Those two oldest ones look so tired
2026-10-07 20:50:43
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sameness121
sameness121 :
My grandpa and grandma did this. They had 12 kids. My mom had no childhood. When my mom asked for a doll my grandpa handed one of her siblings instead. She did everything including the disciplining. Her siblings see her as a mom and most went zero contact with their real parents
2026-10-07 20:59:42
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desireebernstein4
Desiree41010 :
"Face her this way dude" pick up your kid and you turn her around dude.
2026-10-07 14:36:56
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semi_charmed21
Tricia :
Sometimes I feel like they’re hedging their bets, when they have that many kids. Let’s see who make it.
2026-10-07 13:43:13
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bananabreadinmyhead
Banana Bread :
I was the eldest daughter and got parentified, that's why I'm childfree now at 28
2026-10-07 13:41:21
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kbb561781
🩷 :
My parents had 5 kids and were great parents, but me and my older sister did not get nearly the same level of attention and quality time that my 3 younger siblings are getting as teens. Imo 3-4 is the max and if both parents work long hours even that is pushing it.
2026-10-07 13:39:48
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voxs.lover
voxs.lover :
the 2 older kids look tired af
2026-10-07 14:39:55
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ms.redrum
Ms.Redrum :
question: why would a parent post this if this is their kids reaction like seriously why do parents think this is cute or adorable or funny I don't understand....
2026-10-07 14:15:53
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missfatality_710
MissFatality710 :
they have proven psychologically after six kids you start to neglect the mental needs of your children because you cannot be there for more
2026-10-07 14:14:55
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