@safespacewithkay: Parents who didn’t learn how to regulate their own emotions become emotional opportunists towards their own children. Who you are isn’t important, what you can do for them is 

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Angelique Howell :
This is why I'm finding enjoyment in the things I once considered a hobby. I stopped singing, dancing, running track or playing sports period because my parents made it hard to enjoy by doing THE MOST for THEIR image. They LOVED how THEY looked when I was doing something that pleases them and it happened to be things I enjoyed. If I didn't stop, they would have exploited me for my talents.
2026-10-07 19:03:05
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rieriebos
rieriebos :
My mother. She was a (willing) victim and never felt her feelings or become her own person. While I was neglected. Now it’s as though she is an emotionally and intellectually stunted adult child.
2026-10-07 20:49:11
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ritas.diy.minis
RITAS.DIY.MINIS :
The sad thing is that a toxic codependency and enmeshment forms and the only way it seems you can escape is going no contact for a while. They have to stop seeing you in that role.
2026-10-07 20:29:13
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mindbodysoul1113
jeanetteperez1113 :
This is A FACT💯💯💯
2026-10-08 00:58:20
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claire_haire
Claire_Haire :
Heavy on curious about your child! It’s so easy to see when a parent doesn’t see you as a person but , extension 🎯
2026-10-07 22:00:47
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idreamof_fox
idreamof_fox :
Apparently I’m an ATM machine. Good for me, I stopped dispensing cash 😆
2026-10-07 21:00:17
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alexisorganic
Destiny Alexis 🍀 :
Even though it’s good to push your child to be their best, I was pushed to accomplish things to fulfill my grandma’s wants. Not to actually further my own development. Once I became an adult, our relationship was strained because i started chasing my dreams instead of hers.
2026-10-07 18:05:38
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phylealeahhh
keepinitP_ :
I thank God everyday that I wasn’t a child star navigating that and my childhood trauma while dealing with a narc mom? REHAB
2026-10-07 19:49:22
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chos.betr8
CHOS BETR :
my mom expected me to stay a Jehovah's Witness, and be her mini-me.
2026-10-07 22:55:38
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halesbee5
Haley :
Well said !
2026-10-07 20:35:13
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uhh8713
★★ :
so well said
2026-10-07 18:05:07
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jademarenberg1
jademarenberg1 :
Thisssdd
2026-10-07 22:56:51
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thinkradiantly
thinkradiantly :
Yup. My entire childhood 💯
2026-10-07 18:12:16
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_contemporarychic
Min :
Yes
2026-10-07 20:13:54
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kenyaaab344
kenya🤍🔆 :
yupp
2026-10-07 19:45:23
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