@drewwdaniels: Signs your partner wants to recieve parenting - not participate in partnership. #anxiousattachment #avoidantattachment #attachmentstyles

Tara Sandala :

100% in this right now. Spot on

toooldforthis :

So…anxious attachment

kaylaxchelsea :

Yaaaaaaa I started noticing recently I was having to perform very similarly to how I treated my toddler nephews. Never again 😂

IslaMarket :

Yes and he sold himself as emotional mature until we started living together! I became the one in charge of everything!! 1 month I stated the boundaries by second month I left!! Never mind I he knew I been single for 10 years and talked overly about both expectations! He thought i should love him unconditionally! 😳

tone11862 :

Thank you

bravesoul✨️ :

I agree!! I tried everything they think its funny so I leave. according to him n his female neighbor i was supposed to ne their happiness meanwhile if I wasn't available all the time I was told i ruined their day.

Sarah Springsteen Trumble :

Mikey :

Are you a trained and licensed psychologist? Because if you were you would know these are natural and well understood interrelational patterns. All partners WANT to be heard and emotionally supported, and in crisis they may not be able to BE supportive at the same time. It is the role of the therapist to help them acknowledge those childlike parts of themselves, rather than pathologize them as you’re doing here.

MamaB :

Anxious attachment * “I need reassurance.” A need to known others emotions * “I need you close.” Closeness is sharing emotions * “Please respond to my feelings.” But also share yours * Strong fear of abandonment or disconnection. Which is why they want to know others feelings Avoidant attachment * Wants a partner available when they need support. * Can become uncomfortable when the partner has emotional needs of their own. * May minimize, dismiss, or distance from the partner’s feelings. * Can expect the relationship to accommodate their emotions without reciprocating.