@thepottymouthguru: Women are expected to anticipate danger without ever appearing suspicious of men. Be careful, but don’t be paranoid. Trust your gut, but don’t judge him unfairly. Protect yourself, but don’t make him feel like a predator. And if something happens? Suddenly everybody wants to know why the fuck you didn’t see it coming. That is an impossible standard. Men do not need to carry personal guilt for violence they didn’t commit. But women also don’t need to soften the reality of male violence until it’s comfortable enough to hear. Your discomfort with the conversation is survivable. That’s kind of the fucking point. ❤️🤟🏻🌿
It's schrodinger's men. They are all potentially 'that one'. re: rejection is unsafe - I'd say reject them and see if they take it gracefully. I dislike tests, but this one might be needed.
2026-10-07 23:12:47
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LouLou 🌲🌳 🇨🇦 :
You have said this as eloquently as possible. Best explanation I’ve heard. Thank you!!
2026-10-07 22:55:25
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jtea :
us men need to seriously step up.
2026-10-08 16:12:53
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Kelsey🇨🇦🏳️🌈 :
And then we’re also ridiculed for our intuition….
2026-10-07 23:26:21
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PJM :
This needs to be on a bill board. You said it. This is it exactly.
2026-10-08 06:16:50
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BoobyGrow :
It’s a terribly weird situation to have many crybaby men that get angry when they’re turned down.
2026-10-08 19:56:31
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Sunny :
‘Why didn’t you scream’ cause you went 14 years conditioning me to be quiet….
2026-10-10 13:50:36
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502janel :
Agree except there are alpha females. Make men afraid and you are the alpha.
2026-10-28 12:07:21
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azlinaza3 :
I choose the bear, always.
2026-10-08 03:08:02
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Queen B 🇨🇦🌖🌑🌔 :
if we can't go over, around or under the patriarchy, we will go through it.Ruse Up! Stay Quarrelsome 🌖🌑🌔
2026-10-10 12:41:08
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Earth Girl :
If we were speaking about dogs, it would suddenly be understandable that we approach new ones with caution. But with men we're expected to just trust them, or know if they're dangerous ahead of time.
2026-10-12 16:38:46
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Gloria E :
EXACTLY! Thank you for posting this. Well said.
2026-10-10 11:43:09
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lisaandtheword :
Show us that you have an ounce of compassion! not many even of the so-called good men have done that
2026-10-23 00:02:44
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zib :
Three month dating rule.
2026-10-12 01:22:16
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Mira Salem 🇨🇦🇷🇴 :
I feel like I've been shouting this from the rooftops for over 10 years now and things have only gotten worse... I'm exhausted. I'm so exhausted. I'll never stop standing up for women and speaking up but dam, it's been an uphill battle. I'm just happy I'm seeing women wake up more.
2026-10-10 07:22:45
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Myth :
I win everyday
2026-10-08 05:26:24
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cseace1975 :
i really hope one day this talk will stop. romanticizing this existential problem to women.
please stop explaining to men. leave without. if they can but they cant because they always knew about everything theyll do what they think.
stop explaining!!
2026-10-10 12:58:25
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Raja Norkhairani :
They always blame women
2026-10-09 02:19:03
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Jbsocial#1 :
Not only do we not know which man, but even the men who are supposedly safe would rather protect the bad men and the mysogynist systems that protect predators and put all the blame & responsibility on women
2026-10-15 16:31:14
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morgan__gg :
Violence against women is a problem for men (like me) to solve. This is our problem to solve. We have to police our own.
2026-10-08 12:59:39
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DualControl🇦🇺 :
men only feel guilty / offended or defensive when they know they have done something wrong in the first place
2026-10-07 23:00:23
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Wildly Unpopular :
Our existence in patriarchy is a complete fucking gaslight. We need to riot.
2026-10-09 11:41:24
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zigzag :
Men are more concerned with feeling attacked than they are about women who are actually attacked
2026-10-10 13:26:40
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cygnetina 🦢 :
Here’s a bowl of m&ms, only two are poisoned, most of them are good!
2026-10-09 02:48:43
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