Nancy Fran :
My husband and I split everything, but his capabilities fit certain things were different then mine. Also my was 7 to 4, hubby worked til 6, so yes I did doctors. Could my husband answer all the questions in this skit, yes and if it was something he needed to refresh before, we’d discuss. Like “how long has symptoms been” for a sick visit, cause we both terrible with time, that acceptable. She had a reaction once to an antibiotic, but it went away, so reminder needed cause I had time usually to be point person. Also it isn’t just that we normalize the incompetence, women automatically take on the load without sharing. We shared, but our jobs made it such that certain things fell under my watch. Btw, he did mornings and she was never late to school, he knew her friends, etc. I just had the job that made me available for the early activities. I also once yelled at my brother in law for saying “watching their 2 kids was too hard”, but my SIL was a sahm and she did it daily, she just wanted hair appointment alone. 2 hours, they are your kids, learn to take care of them.
2026-10-16 18:56:29