Chris Seiter
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Thursday 08 October 2026 17:00:00 GMT
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𝐕𝐀𝐍𝐄𝐒𝐒𝐀 |🐦🔥 :
Avoidants are to be avoided.
2026-10-08 20:25:57
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softcoremessiah :
avoidants want to have their cake and eat it too, they need someone with low self worth
2026-10-08 20:00:14
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di-dee :
avoidants behavour create anxious attachments.
2026-10-08 21:27:16
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💛Karma💛 :
Avoidants need therapy
2026-10-08 21:27:24
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Zanna :
I learned to treat my avoidant like a seedling. Sometimes he just needs space to grow and stabilize. And during that time, I live my life.
2026-10-08 18:48:09
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𝕾𝖙𝖊𝖕𝖍🗿 :
Well lucky for my ex I’m now his perfect avoidant all thanks to him 💀
2026-10-15 05:40:28
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shiningstar19 :
Avoidants dating avoidants would save everybody lots of heartache and trauma
2026-10-08 22:19:40
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Alan Stu :
Dont waste your time run
2026-10-08 19:17:44
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Jada Emily | Fearful Avoidant :
You are so accurate
2026-10-14 18:31:57
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Daniiiiiiiii 💗 :
Attracted to others but not attracted to fixing themselves! 🙄
2026-10-08 21:23:11
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mommastahl1970 :
So this is why my avoidant works. He is initiating everything. He’s the one that says good morning. If I don’t answer him, he’s texting me nonstop. He’s calling me constantly until I pick up when I pull away. He becomes very anxious when he’s drunk he tells me he loves me. I don’t even know what to think about it but I’m to the point where I’m just done. I said to him one night what would you do without me and he said honestly, I don’t know.
2026-10-08 20:31:33
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BrittneyEzna :
Can confirm, it’s how I discovered I was an avoidant 💀I kept attracting worse ones
2026-10-08 20:28:54
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yKalinga :
Avoidant is most selfish and self entered people.
2026-10-08 22:08:07
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🇯🇲eyebeelowkey👁️🐝👇🏽🗝️ :
avoidants have low self esteem
2026-10-09 23:26:28
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Cbass :
Don’t ever waste your time on an avoidant. As soon as you figure it out, turn and run. They are no better than narcissists. They will emotionally abuse you.
2026-10-09 12:01:32
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1mom_4girls :
And even after you jump through fire hoops while juggling knives in a clown suit, they still withdraw, discard, cheat and leave. It’s a constant performance where you completely lose yourself.
2026-10-09 00:37:04
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Peace83💜💜🫂 :
ive never been anxiously attached to nobody but 6 yrs ago I met this jerk and im attached off and on for years and now my nervous system is shot I wish I could just walk away but wtf why
2026-10-08 22:14:35
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LifeofLence | Valencia :
I refuse to bother with avoidants. Not worth it
2026-10-09 02:49:16
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tcx_x :
Do you just come up with all these terms
2026-10-09 02:07:58
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Jaz Jillette :
Yes! They try to turn you into an anxious person so they have an excuse to not like you. Don’t fall for it.
2026-10-08 20:21:21
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highpriestess300 :
My Avoidant keeps telling me "we have so much in common", and tells me I may be mixed Avoidant. 🤔
2026-10-08 18:37:12
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facts :
your free do whatever you want
2026-10-08 19:08:32
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D.Angelo.95 :
My avoidant TOLD ME to block them after a few days of no contact . We’ve been in this push and pull cycle for 3 months but it’s the first time it kinda feels final . But then again she broke contact last night to tell me that . To block her and forget her . Like ??? It’s been days I don’t get I haven’t bothered you
2026-10-08 20:19:56
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imjustaguydude :
I've met so many anxious that completely pretend to be independent at the beginning
2026-10-09 06:46:48
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Johnni Hildebrand :
When I was about 31 I found out I Mirror. It’s suddle and unnoticeable to most even myself. But now that I know, I can see how I change from one person to the next, mannerisms, energy vibes, interests (after the encounter) can’t hang out with people who have bad habits! Point is, I didn’t run into an avoidant until I was 33. Struggled for about a year when I fell on to what attachment styles are. Lucky for me this mirror thing turned out to be a superpower. Cause I still get to be me (secure-anxious) while he’s become (secure-DA). 5 years in and things have never been better, I’ve never gotten I love yous out loud. But I get acts of service, “you’re my favorite person” “you’re the best travel partner” “I’m so lucky you’re part of my life” “have I told you lately how amazing you are”, he doesn’t always say much when I express needs (physical affection) but there’s action the next time that need arises. Not sure if I’ll ever stop being afraid he might just tuck and run someday. Hope I end up being one of the lucky ones.
2026-10-09 01:01:41
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