@femdom_revolution01: I recently had a deeply devoted man confused about if his offerings fell into the category of "performance" or not. Because he has the heart and the substance to back his external displays, my answer was a whole-hearted "NO! That is not 'show-off' behavior at all." When it is grounded, it is real, and carries a different energy entirely. I hope this helps to clear things up for you, too:)