@beyondbeautifull: I’m struggling to decide if I want a friendly relationship with my parents who aren’t interested in being my parents but are Ok with being adult friends. R/relationship_advice By: ThrowRACharacterGo #fyp #beyondbeautifull #BlackTikTok #redditstories #redditreadings
I have officially had 3 therapists now, and every single one of them has informed me that me being angry at my childhood abusers is wrong and that I should forgive them and understand where they are coming from. I no longer have a therapist.
2026-10-08 11:06:15
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applesmcclain :
OP Im going to hold your hand when I say this. Tell them you are not interested in being adult friends and you would NOT like them very much if they carry on about it
2026-10-08 14:16:32
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didyoujustsaypurpleee :
Ask yourself “if I met 2 strangers at a social gathering and they wanted to be friends with me but then I found out they neglected their child, would I still want to be friends with them?” That’s your answer.
2026-10-08 14:08:40
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BraidBarbie :
A bad therapist is worse than none. Don’t go to that therapist anymore.
2026-10-08 11:11:30
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tequila_ann2 :
I really believe that the therapist is the “parents” friend 😤 OP stated that they didn’t choose this person as their therapist….
2026-10-08 11:09:25
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delladiffinbradford :
If they didn’t want you as a child they definitely don’t deserve to be part of the life you have built by yourself !!!
2026-10-08 10:38:09
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kerrydiggs827 :
I feel so much for this child.
2026-10-14 00:20:53
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Marianne :
This is either we need childcare or family/colleagues have noticed your suddenly not here
2026-10-08 10:38:22
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Amazing A.P :
they don't want a friendly adult relationship. they want a babysitter
2026-10-13 20:49:38
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Destiny :
I don’t like the therapist. Sorry not sorry.
2026-10-08 10:40:34
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Royalty_549👑 :
and just like that, we find a new therapist
2026-10-08 10:42:44
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Ames :
They’re abusive. Cut them our dear
2026-10-08 10:51:52
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Pauline FJ :
Or a babysitter 🤔
2026-10-13 19:37:13
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Becca Ann :
Cut off the parents, get a new therapist, and go live freely without them you’ll find the right people and make your own family.
2026-10-08 10:49:05
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NeekyNeek👑 :
Me moments after accepting their offer
2026-10-13 03:43:02
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JoJo :
Just tell them you have enough friends
2026-10-12 20:37:06
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lealee1801 :
Not just the babysitting but the chores , rent etc . Nah not the AH
2026-10-08 10:58:25
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lowkey_tellem :
That therapist is proof that free is not always better. You get what you pay for
2026-10-08 12:19:03
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Jessý :
I'm almost as mad at the therapist as I am at the "parents"
2026-10-08 10:51:12
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ohemaanicelady :
Well u get to choose ur friends, so if u don’t want them as friends it’s ok
2026-10-08 11:16:25
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RegMyan :
I would tell them “I’m not looking for friends. I was looking for parents for a while but I’m over that now thank you though.”
2026-10-08 14:23:05
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brittanyosman145 :
I just don't get it. I cry every single time my 5-year-old looks at me and says I don't need your help anymore mommy I'm big I can do this by myself. he just started doing his own baths because his best friend does and I'm heartbroken
2026-10-08 10:52:13
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lfem1291 :
this is supposed to be better/less cruel than an abortion....? abandonment? neglect? complete dismissal?
2026-10-09 16:12:06
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aida_potato :
Why would I want “friends” that never cared an ounce about me. Sounds like inviting snakes in the garden to me
2026-10-08 11:49:20
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