@duqahhh: Why do humans spend millions on parties, clothes and food for the whole village over a dead BODYYYY?

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akismen.ig
AKISMEN IG :
What will the people you are going to invite we eat?
2026-10-09 08:06:56
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dr_mudiaga
DR MUDIAGA :
she's right, in developed countries,they don't spend much money on funerals
2026-10-08 16:29:57
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ag14742
AG 🪖 :
It’s a celebration of life not just a burial
2026-10-08 21:42:25
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curmello
❤️‍🔥Curmello :
I raise you Yoruba funerals 😂 The souvenirs alone ehn... dem fit share land 🤣🤣
2026-10-08 11:21:18
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jarghunlarbhi
Jargs⚕️🩺🥼 :
Losing someone and losing money… ko make sense
2026-10-08 11:24:05
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thatgurllayooo0
Modalayo🥹❤️ :
It's weird thinking about it icl but I go still chop rice.
2026-10-08 11:21:47
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destinyboy104
Destiny Boy :
In my opinion, if you invite people to a party or funeral, you should make proper arrangements for them. You can’t expect people to leave their homes, attend an event and stay there for hours without food or somewhere comfortable to sit. That’s why things like meals, canopies and chairs are provided—not necessarily because of the person who died, but to take care of the people who came to pay their respects. That’s just my opinion.
2026-10-08 15:50:19
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sam_wealt
$€£¥DANNYjustWealth :
Some death reunite families and making new connections, Speaking from Africa perspective.
2026-10-08 15:08:48
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ibi_niyi
Ibi_niyi :
thank you my sister, there are things I will never do
2026-10-09 06:16:16
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hnkomuwa
Harrisonthecreator :
I need that riceee
2026-10-08 11:54:04
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stepeazycloset
molecule :
its on us to change that rubbish tradition.
2026-10-09 04:43:15
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nex_rion
Rion :
Like celebrating the death of that person over their life. It's Nonsense, unless they spend the money to support the bereaved bcos It's wholly useless to the deceased.
2026-10-08 16:28:13
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____beamer
Beamer | Web3 creator🖤 :
It has never made any sense to me even the “memory” part
2026-10-08 11:51:51
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queen15.c2
𝗔𝗠𝗜𝗖 𝗧𝗩 🩷♥️🇦🇴🇦🇷🥏 :
there will be telling you it is last respect
2026-10-08 15:24:19
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djradosound
RADOSOUNDS :
Funniest part, na funeral food dey sweet pass, especially their jollof rice
2026-10-09 05:51:15
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abkcoded
ABK | Tech & AI :
They don’t spend money because of the body; they spend it because of the memories that person created while they were alive. Most people who passed away were well taken care of during their lives, so it’s usually not about the money—it’s about the memories they leave behind.
2026-10-08 11:21:57
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kamalgothacked
𝙠 :
it's not done in islam we mourn the dead not celebrate
2026-10-08 18:20:58
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femoralnelson
Femoralnelson :
especially Africans
2026-10-08 11:25:20
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uyi.c.o
Uyi-oghosa :
I actually agree with this. My issue isn't with giving someone a dignified burial or gathering briefly to mourn. My question is: why do we attach so much unnecessary spending, partying, clothing, food, drinks and ceremony to a dead body when that same money could have been used to make the person's life better while they were alive? We often say we are doing it “to honour the dead,” but the dead person can no longer benefit from the money being spent. If you truly loved and valued someone, wouldn't it make more sense to show that love when they could still see it, enjoy it and benefit from it? And this is why I also question the expectation that mourners must be fed. Someone has come because you are grieving. Why should your grief now come with the additional responsibility of catering for everybody? Mourn the person. Bury the person with dignity. Honour their memory. But while they were alive, spend the money on them, care for them and make their life better. That is the kind of honour they could actually experience.
2026-10-08 17:27:17
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favouromonigho2
Daisy🤎 :
Humans are meant to be sentimental. That's your loved one there.
2026-10-09 08:34:31
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mehgac
Krusty Wise :
A lot of things we do just to give life meaning, if you think about it, there really isn’t any reason for yourself to go to school
2026-10-08 14:53:37
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odogwu_gerald
O.G :
Shay if them invite go burial and them no give u food swear say u go happy go house
2026-10-09 00:26:56
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oluyemisopade
Oluyemi Sopade :
Like brooooooo😂😂😂!!!!!!!!
2026-10-08 12:03:44
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ebuskalabe
English Autos :
honestly for ones I've never support that..... just bury them and cover the grave
2026-10-09 05:16:03
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spacools.aesthetics_
spacool's aesthetics_01🥰 :
hi dear
2026-10-08 11:48:33
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