@iswispod: We’ve seen this friend dating your ex thing manifest time and time again and it never makes sense. Your feelings are very valid! Be honest, What would you do if you found out your friend dated your abusive ex and her parents encouraged it?
she’s trying to make up for it because it didn’t work out w him
2026-10-08 12:20:09
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mideandseek :
She should keep her friendship
2026-10-08 11:49:51
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With Love, Bee.🌬️🌸 :
RUN!!! They don’t like you in that family.
2026-10-08 12:46:59
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Keeping up with Kanyin🫶🏾 :
You’re justified like madddddd. Leave your friend and her family they’re freaking weird
2026-10-08 11:41:03
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ChiThelma🤍 :
That is NOT your friend
2026-10-08 12:18:27
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Anyessin Makmang :
if I were the friend, I would assume they thought I was the problem and that's why they wanted their daughter to date him.
2026-10-09 07:32:01
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jklmnopq_2001 :
cut them offfffffff
Your ex friend o the mummy of the ex friend o the family of the ex friend
like literally there are a lot of other men they could have set her up with
instead they chose the one that hurt you, for me it translates to, they never liked you and were always jealous of what you had with the guy
so whatever window that opened whether abusive or not, they were delighted
2026-10-09 15:11:16
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thejujumanishereforyou :
From the story here’s my take. He’s not dating the friend because he likes her but probably to spite and get back at you. She is ‘opening up’ to you as a chore not because she cares about you (just so she wouldn’t feel guilty…‘Shebi I have told you’ excuse. He most likely would’ve told bad things about you to your friend and her family and portrayed himself as a saint. Narcissists/ abusers have a way of making you look bad to others just so they can still have control and to make you feel bad about yourself. LEAVE THE FRIEND AND THE FAMILY ASAP…for your mental health!!!
2026-10-08 20:19:12
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Abj :
Let go of the friend + family mama. You might not believe it but you will move on and life will still be beautiful 🥺❤️
2026-10-10 08:45:29
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Nimat💎 :
Please cut her off tbh
2026-10-08 11:56:52
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ryyy💢 :
The friend and her family are weird.
2026-10-08 14:47:00
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Aderemilekun❤️🔥 :
Justified pleaseeeeeee...
Why do they want her to be with someone who abused another lady in every way possible.
2026-10-08 11:53:47
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OLAEDONNAYA ❤️ :
Please leave that your friend and her family .
2026-10-08 14:14:59
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Rambly Sally 🐈⬛✨ :
What ??? Please end everything with everyone
2026-10-08 11:35:28
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onome odili :
which friendship again??
2026-10-10 13:46:15
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Precy :
Your best friend's ex fiancé.?
2026-10-08 11:47:21
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TobyD Talks :
I think you should just keep your distance sha
2026-10-08 14:58:34
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PRO LASH ARTIST IN SURULERE :
*heavy sigh* 😂
2026-10-08 11:42:05
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omashummer :
That person is your enemy sha
2026-10-08 13:14:30
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Cicilla :
😹don’t stress. She will learn
2026-10-08 13:12:14
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Tꨄ :
You nor go from that friendship??
2026-10-08 14:52:22
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Liviaaaaaaaaa :
Omo mk everybody stay their own abeg
2026-10-08 12:54:25
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Nimat💎 :
That’s insane
2026-10-08 11:56:14
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Enoh Joan :
I don’t see anything wrong with what your friend did…y’all were done and she even had the courtesy to tell you about it.
If she imagined her experience with your ex will be different than yours, that’s on her and for her to find out.
As for her parents, I’m thinking they just want their daughter to marry and are not thinking or caring about how their actions will make you feel and honestly it’s not their job to care.
But I’m also interested to know why you feel betrayed
2026-10-08 15:11:57
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uche💗 :
Ahh
2026-10-09 09:00:51
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