@iswispod: We’ve seen this friend dating your ex thing manifest time and time again and it never makes sense. Your feelings are very valid! Be honest, What would you do if you found out your friend dated your abusive ex and her parents encouraged it?

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oge.eviey
￴ ￴ ￴ ￴ ￴ 🌀ge :
she’s trying to make up for it because it didn’t work out w him
2026-10-08 12:20:09
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mideandseek
mideandseek :
She should keep her friendship
2026-10-08 11:49:51
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blessingovabor
With Love, Bee.🌬️🌸 :
RUN!!! They don’t like you in that family.
2026-10-08 12:46:59
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darkkhanyiii
Keeping up with Kanyin🫶🏾 :
You’re justified like madddddd. Leave your friend and her family they’re freaking weird
2026-10-08 11:41:03
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chichi_thelma
ChiThelma🤍 :
That is NOT your friend
2026-10-08 12:18:27
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apphia2903
Anyessin Makmang :
if I were the friend, I would assume they thought I was the problem and that's why they wanted their daughter to date him.
2026-10-09 07:32:01
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jklmnopq2001_
jklmnopq_2001 :
cut them offfffffff Your ex friend o the mummy of the ex friend o the family of the ex friend like literally there are a lot of other men they could have set her up with instead they chose the one that hurt you, for me it translates to, they never liked you and were always jealous of what you had with the guy so whatever window that opened whether abusive or not, they were delighted
2026-10-09 15:11:16
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themoneymanishereforyou
thejujumanishereforyou :
From the story here’s my take. He’s not dating the friend because he likes her but probably to spite and get back at you. She is ‘opening up’ to you as a chore not because she cares about you (just so she wouldn’t feel guilty…‘Shebi I have told you’ excuse. He most likely would’ve told bad things about you to your friend and her family and portrayed himself as a saint. Narcissists/ abusers have a way of making you look bad to others just so they can still have control and to make you feel bad about yourself. LEAVE THE FRIEND AND THE FAMILY ASAP…for your mental health!!!
2026-10-08 20:19:12
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abj.nicole
Abj :
Let go of the friend + family mama. You might not believe it but you will move on and life will still be beautiful 🥺❤️
2026-10-10 08:45:29
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thenimat1
Nimat💎 :
Please cut her off tbh
2026-10-08 11:56:52
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softy.ryy_
ryyy💢 :
The friend and her family are weird.
2026-10-08 14:47:00
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aderemilekun00
Aderemilekun❤️‍🔥 :
Justified pleaseeeeeee... Why do they want her to be with someone who abused another lady in every way possible.
2026-10-08 11:53:47
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olas_aura
OLAEDONNAYA ❤️ :
Please leave that your friend and her family .
2026-10-08 14:14:59
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withlovesalama
Rambly Sally 🐈‍⬛✨ :
What ??? Please end everything with everyone
2026-10-08 11:35:28
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onome.od
onome odili :
which friendship again??
2026-10-10 13:46:15
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shopwithprecy
Precy :
Your best friend's ex fiancé.?
2026-10-08 11:47:21
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tobydera
TobyD Talks :
I think you should just keep your distance sha
2026-10-08 14:58:34
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lashby_mara
PRO LASH ARTIST IN SURULERE :
*heavy sigh* 😂
2026-10-08 11:42:05
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omashummer
omashummer :
That person is your enemy sha
2026-10-08 13:14:30
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cicilla_socials
Cicilla :
😹don’t stress. She will learn
2026-10-08 13:12:14
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ctrltee_
Tꨄ :
You nor go from that friendship??
2026-10-08 14:52:22
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liv4eva2
Liviaaaaaaaaa :
Omo mk everybody stay their own abeg
2026-10-08 12:54:25
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thenimat1
Nimat💎 :
That’s insane
2026-10-08 11:56:14
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enohjoan
Enoh Joan :
I don’t see anything wrong with what your friend did…y’all were done and she even had the courtesy to tell you about it. If she imagined her experience with your ex will be different than yours, that’s on her and for her to find out. As for her parents, I’m thinking they just want their daughter to marry and are not thinking or caring about how their actions will make you feel and honestly it’s not their job to care. But I’m also interested to know why you feel betrayed
2026-10-08 15:11:57
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chebuda
uche💗 :
Ahh
2026-10-09 09:00:51
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