@dearduumbdiaryy: #deardiary #digitaldiary #relatable

honey miso 🍎🐛 :

do you mean that our true self is our bad side?

kris ꕤ :

interesting timing

oj :

How people respond are byproducts of their environment and past circumstances that shaped who they are right now. I’ll continue believing that the right person will eventually make her realize that who she is and how she feels is never her fault.

mells 🌕 :

your worst moments don't define you as a person and it's harmful to assume that

Wesley :

been there done that. it made me realize no amount of excuses like "it's because of my past" will ever justify them to not communicate maturely as adults especially when you clearly tell them to talk to you directly rather than just assume the worst out of the situation. assumptions kill the relationship, be it friendship or partnership. grow up! talk to the person you're having conflicts with!

ri3_ :

no, a person consists of likeable and unlikeable parts. u dont just recognize one's negative sides as their whole identity.

manda :

that’s the shadow.. a bad side doesn’t mean it’s the true self..

Galofthevalley :

It definitely tests communication, but true character is also how you show up after the dust settles. People are too complex for one moment to define them

skep |-/ :

would you guys think it would be a valid experiment if you purposely started a fight to see how they would deal with it?

Baldima 🧞 :

He called me nga that when I knew he was not it fr

🌕 :

But why is it that our bad side or angry side is our ‘true self’ that would be saying that everything apart from that is a facade we put on

Robin :

the timing

Ari ᥫ᭡ :

Well i dont like conflict

TAM •MISA :

I don’t trust people until I’ve seen how they act when things go wrong.

𝘭𝘪𝘵𝘦𝘳𝘢𝘭𝘭𝘺 𝘵𝘳𝘢𝘤𝘺 :

This is how I knew I needed to change

user982628023 :

So I’m everything that I hate..

Ally.iahh౨ৎ🌷 :

Their true colors show up after the storm

ladyoo :

agree

￴ ￴￴ :

Yes

kae :

no

🪷 :

especially that's when you see how someone actually thinks about you

andz.is_gæ :

i was a fu**ng terrible person ik

K3nTG :

identities and psychology is a mess to the mind. why do we gotta collect identities of a whole now

Melody 🌹✨ :

Not surprised though

Mr. Perma Freshie :