🩷Healing in the Mess❤️🔥
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Thursday 08 October 2026 17:48:01 GMT
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Holliereg :
I know you’re trying so hard but you absolutely have to declutter and get rid of most of what you have. You don’t need all that stuff. Good job on the progress
2026-10-08 18:22:41
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Janelle 😱 :
Get another dumpster
2026-10-08 18:40:56
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Susan Dykema :
Please get professional help as someone is gonna get really sick Perhaps call your insurance company to see what they would cover or mortgage your house to pay for cleaning and repairs
2026-10-08 22:13:25
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Sun58 :
I’m not sure if the whole family has social media. But the family truly need to help you . It’s everyone’s home
2026-10-08 23:53:31
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Kris7yy :
A cleaner I watch recommended doing 4 foot sections an it’s truly helpful in these type of situations
2026-10-09 03:01:13
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ohheyits_lauren :
Bring the trash can to the area you are cleaning. You waste lots of time going back and forth
2026-10-09 00:25:17
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user6142126719509 :
What has got that man glued to that phone. Do you check his FYP. Y’all about to meet jidion
2026-10-09 02:17:08
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👀 :
Okay, perhaps this is a solution that will help you, and everyone’s health. Since they won’t do their share of work or pay for the services that they refuse to do… just throw everything away. Literally look up minimalist living and only keep that. Then it won’t be much for you to keep up with. You can much easier keep a handle on cleaning, stress your body less and everyone’s health and anxiety will improve with less filth.
2026-10-08 22:31:42
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Jess :
You truly need to make your family help you. You’ve mentioned in other comment sections you’re the one who’s doing the cleaning and making this effort, not them. That isn’t fair to you to keep up with a 4 person household.
2026-10-09 03:14:51
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Deb850 :
Perhaps put all the table items in a clothes basket and just set aside? We use paper plates, etc to slow down the cleaning work
2026-10-08 18:19:24
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Raye'lee Mae :
functional not perfect! it is a good goal. its what i am doing right now.
2026-10-09 00:11:02
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Once upon a skye :
Great job incase anyone hasn’t said yet! Even one bit of trash or put away is still a win! 💖
2026-10-08 18:02:32
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Nyn :
Good job!!!
2026-10-08 18:01:33
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Janelle 😱 :
Are you getting therapy/psych work along with this?
2026-10-08 21:16:12
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Deb850 :
You’re slowly getting there!!
2026-10-08 18:18:48
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user739637848906 :
If your husband is experiencing anxiety so severe that he cannot manage basic care tasks, he needs to either be hospitalized or placed in some sort of IOP (the same goes for your children as well) until he’s stabilized. That said, I’ll be totally honest, I think that this situation has far more to do with enmeshment and enabling behaviors within your family dynamic than it does any mental or physical health issue. This will not change meaningfully until you change it. Family therapy would be a great first step.
2026-10-09 01:34:37
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Sev717 :
There’s more than just “things on the floor.” There’s literally trash on the floor instead of going in the trash can. Throwing trash away is the simplest thing y’all could do. I just don’t understand. If habits don’t change, such as making sure garbage goes in the garbage, then I’d reconsider if all of this is worth it anymore
2026-10-08 22:01:34
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britnkk4144 :
As a grown man, he needs to help more. This whole “anxiety” excuse is played out. I mean come on yall need to help her.
2026-10-08 20:32:39
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Your Mom 💋 :
If the others can be glued to their phones, they can very clean. They aren't minors...mental illness is not selective. My 20 year old severely and I mean severely mentally ill daughter who's on disability (I'm her caregiver), just got her own apartment and cleans up after herself. You need to stop making labels and excuses and just do.
2026-10-08 19:57:01
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dogsworld45 :
Everytime she says she’s cleaning then she gives excuses.
2026-10-08 23:15:27
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gangstergranny057 :
stop touching and retouching everything. been there done that. get the trash can and throw it out
2026-10-08 22:00:30
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JenBrad2 :
Genuine question, why is there so much garbage laying around the house? Are there not enough trash cans around the house to throw the trash away???
2026-10-09 03:00:59
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KingBongo :
Why can’t everyone just put trash in the trash can? Immediately. No excuses.
2026-10-09 00:51:50
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Denisha Gonzales Lucero :
how about completely clean the counter off before moving to something else.
2026-10-08 23:46:23
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Steelers04Fan :
Do you have 2 adult children and husband in the same house?
2026-10-08 22:41:31
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