@revsaaja: As a woman who’s dedicated to deconstructing the system of patriarchy, we can’t build and sustain the divine feminine without addressing the women amongst us who indeed operate from toxic masculinity.

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simone92s
Simone :
Rev, What is your opinion on lesbian relationships when we remove the illusion of gender, since man is woman externalized, we can also argue that we have preferences and that gender truly does not matter. It is the psychic energy in each individual, the integration of the masc and feminine. So your saying it’s about the narcissistic spell in the individuals that will make either hetero or queer relationships disfunctuonal?
2026-10-16 17:00:12
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ancient_women_13_zodiac
Katy✨️Lynn✨️ :
so true 100% thank you so much
2026-10-16 15:10:38
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prettypowerhouse1
Pretty Powerhouse :
I just left my abusive wife. This stuff is real.
2026-10-09 23:14:11
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the_somatic_sovereign
the_somatic_sovereign :
What kind of woman or relationship?
2026-10-08 19:14:50
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lamatrique
LaMatrique :
THISSSS cuz why is a stud acting like a ab*sive man sometimes😭
2026-10-11 14:55:08
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babyjesus521
Baby Jesus :
Well said. As a solo lesbian, I know that I cannot be in relationship with women who haven’t done their shadow work pertaining to the mother wound. Same with the father wound, too, though. I have to see proof of the shadow work they’ve done to heal their masculine and feminine.
2026-10-09 15:00:49
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lamecha4917
lamecha :
[Heartwarming][Heartwarming][Heartwarming][Heartwarming]totally understand and agree with you. I didn't understand why she was so much worse than the men that were in my life 😕
2026-10-15 11:36:41
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mightyandmarish
Mare :
ABSOLUTELY SPOT ON. I was abused so thoroughly and repeatedly in the lesbian relationship I was in. No male had ever abused me like that. She was abusive like a male, but with the smarts of feminine energy. It was horrific.
2026-10-10 09:09:34
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emilyybollt
Emily Bolt :
Yes my father put so much hurt upon my mother especially her womb, she still decided to go n have 6 kids anyway.
2026-10-15 21:22:11
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lilacbutterfliez
Lilacbutterfliez :
You should really write a book.
2026-10-08 20:44:08
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cierrathesage
Ci :
I always felt being in a relationship (platonic or romantic) with a woman who is not healed or integrated shadows is way worse than a man no shade
2026-10-11 00:38:49
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marigonz009
Maribel Gonzalez4772 :
What if you don’t have a mother wound? Can you give me an example of a mother wound ?
2026-10-09 14:39:25
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indigenousaboriginal78
IndigenousAboriginal :
I HAVE TOTALLY TO TURNED REPELLED REJECTED, PROTECT MY ENERGY MY LIFE MYSELF. I PAY FOR SERVICES NEEDED IF NEEDED. OTHERWISE, I DO IT MYSELF. I HAVE DONE THE BLACK SHADOW WORK ESPECIALLY WITH MY INTUITIVE DISCERNMENT SELF. I LOVE ❤️AND RESPECT MYSELF AND OTHERS. I KEEP MALES AT BAY. THEY EITHER RESPECT ME OR THEY ARE REPELLED BY ME. I DONT ALLOW THEM EVER TO APPROACH ME FOR ANY REASON. THEY GATHER IN SMALL GROUPS FOR DISCUSSION. MEN GOSSIP MORE THAN WOMEN. I DO NOT 🚫 ARGUE WITH ANYONE I DO NOT 🚫 FIGHT I DO NOT 🚫 PLACE MYSELF IN UNCOMPROMISING POSITIONS WITH ANYONE PERIOD I GUARD AND PROTECT MY PEACE BY ANY MEANS NECESSARY
2026-10-09 16:25:40
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thesoundofsusiq
thesoundofsusiq :
I been wanting to speak on this, you've done it again RevSaaja. hopefully this is something they can heal from cause I feel there is a deep space of healing in a not so toxic sapphic connectio if one could leave the ego games out.
2026-10-09 15:12:51
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3rdeyechey
3rdeyechey :
Thank you so much for saying this!! I keep trying to have this conversation but can never say it this eloquently 🙏🏼
2026-10-11 22:38:02
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bos_gka
bos_gka 🇨🇦 :
Amazing input, thank you for sharing this❤️🙏ase goddess!
2026-10-13 14:34:23
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gen10ken
T’ûo2™️ :
this is tru. after the tables turned and I started getting left this forced me to look and the mirror and the same man which is my dad I hated so much. I realized bruh you just like him you doing the same exact thing he doing. i’m thankful I didn’t continue and I actually woke up
2026-10-14 09:52:23
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emilyybollt
Emily Bolt :
I’m currently tryna heal my womb but my mother doesn’t wanna heal hers n all my sister, we are a family of “6” girls.. still to this day she wants love from him, it’s sick that I have to feel this because of them!
2026-10-15 21:23:21
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kabam007
Kabam007 :
We all need to heal the masculine within us. Everyone. Gay or otherwise.
2026-10-09 19:37:55
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user4011239859335
Natasha Big Eagle Richard :
I do truly understand now.
2026-10-08 21:53:11
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_dadejway
Dadejway ✨ :
😮‍💨 ouchhhh! But, THIS is profound and it makes so much sense.
2026-10-08 21:19:50
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e_negumatic
e_negumatic :
Damn
2026-10-08 18:07:53
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emeraldtouchh
Emerald Valentina :
it's really not about men it's something else it even shows in woman and woman relationships
2026-10-10 12:14:30
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polyauthortiarashania
Poly Author Tiara Shania 🌈 :
Thank you for this. As someone who is newly over the last several years navigating sapphic relationships, I appreciate this information.
2026-10-09 17:42:45
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gotrinigirl
🦋 𝕰𝖑𝖑𝖊 🦋 :
True.kinda obvious
2026-10-13 10:32:30
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