So if ur not repeating urself what is it ur suppose to do if they don’t do it?
2026-10-09 04:18:04
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Erin Baker :
If I can’t repeat, what I do when they don’t do it the first time??
2026-10-09 17:46:17
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Kristin Wills :
This works with husbands too.
2026-10-08 21:38:44
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telbelx4 :
So if we NEVER repeat ourselves what do we do. I say put your shoes on, they don’t. Then what?? Because I went through a stage of asking once, they didn’t do it, I did it. Then they started expecting me to complete tasks they are completely competent doing
2026-10-08 20:12:49
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kate :
How would you respond if you told 6yo “hey we’re leaving in 10 min” “hey 5 more minutes okay?” And then “ okay it’s time to go” and the response is to climb to the top of the play structure and scream no I hate you? [Tears of joy]
2026-10-08 22:42:45
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@Parents Hub :
This is so beautiful and captivating
2026-10-11 07:45:39
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Yoth :
don't forget to make sure that the kids know what you are asking from them. Last year I told my son a lot of times to not be rude to me. At one point a got mad and told him I've told her more than once that he can't be rude to me. he started to cry and said "but I don't know what rude is"
2026-10-10 06:19:57
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crepe.deci :
Man, if I had time to go physically where my kids are every time I need them to do something my day would need extra 6hrs…
2026-10-08 22:25:37
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Nafis :
but then what do you do if they don't listen to you after the first time?
2026-10-09 11:12:03
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JackyStacky :
I never ask a question if it doesn’t matter what his answer is.
2026-10-09 02:27:41
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Abildskov4Ever🇩🇰 :
My biggest mistake is asking questions🙈 I was taught to ask nicely in general and I find it soooo difficult😂
2026-10-08 20:17:21
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Michaela :
Advice for when you’re asking them to come here? If I have to go up to them to get their attention it defeats the purpose of me asking them to come to me. Please help! Also love the advice 10/10
2026-10-08 22:36:32
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Teddd :
Ok so I’m the dad who repeated constantly and now want to stop. How do I say it once and get my son to listen even if I do all the steps in step 1
2026-10-09 01:59:33
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okoyeuchestephen :
There is no one way fit all.
2026-10-09 09:15:50
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Kiwi_Dude :
My mother always framed tasks she wanted me to do with "Do you want to-" It always pissed me off.
2026-10-09 06:06:20
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T_RexJesusPants :
My go to is “I didn’t ask” when she tells me no.
2026-10-09 16:00:37
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chrisreyes9572 :
I’m going to use these tips on my employees
2026-10-09 19:34:09
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Hope Fortis :
Same with my husband. Make sure he is paying attention. Get in his bubble! 😂😂😂
2026-10-09 12:13:29
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anne-michelle :
So how do you not ask twice after following step 1?
2026-10-08 22:16:35
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hlc123 :
You should preface his with the fact that some kids are just naturally more defiant
2026-10-10 19:12:39
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Phoenix :
And when you ask them once and they don’t listen? Then what
2026-10-11 06:33:57
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Zoe Edwards :
Mine says “that’s not my job” 😱 she’s 3. We’ve never said that to her. 😭
2026-10-11 08:52:27
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BBsmom :
What if they still don’t do what you said?
2026-10-10 15:55:23
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Michael Z Thompson :
So how do we not repeat ourselves when they don’t listen to the initial request
2026-10-10 06:15:52
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cherie :
this makes sense now that my kids are grown lol
2026-10-09 22:59:35
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