@whozyourmaddy: Parenthood WILL impact your relationship with your partner. Are you okay with that? Are you willing to prioritize the spark on top of everything else? Think about it! #parenthood #childfree #fencesitter #creatorsearchinsights #relationshiptalks

sam :

i think this is why it’s important to be married for a few years before having any children

_avocadogardener_ :

with or without kids, romance and intimacy will need to be intentional and effortful after years of marriage

Cy☭★ :

“You have a twelve year old” - nah I’m good 😭

balletbabekira :

This sounds ideal to me lol. All the fluff ceases to exist anyway. Raising a human together is a real spiritual project. I think enduring real life together IS the romance.

Ok :

Absolutely not lmao. Having children sounds like my personal hell. I’d rather keep things simple and passionate in my relationship 🥰

Lkell :

Girl stop this is making me want so many more babies 😂😂😂

karissan2011 :

I would resent anyone who came between my husband and I in that way.

IG :

Love this video but I have to say your hair is GORG

Iheartthe90s :

I don’t think this is accurate. I have 3 kids and my partner and I get alone time together every night. I think you are making this more depressing than reality is.

Naomi Figueroa :

This made me see how perfect my boyfriend is. He’s so intentional about everything and take such good care of us. He’s the sweetest man I’ve ever met and I know he would make sure we have time for each other

tazo :

you look like marnie but ginger. i love it

SummoningSun :

Relationships take effort. Your marriage is just as important as your child. If you don’t give it the required time, effort, and attention then you become roommates. Your child needs the both of you and the both of you need each other. You shouldn’t have to sacrifice one for the other. It’s possible to build a healthy family dynamic, but it takes work. Every long term relationship does.

Courtenyay :

heyitshunter :

i think its worth it, im watching this and still i think its worth it, thinking of having a baby is stressful and i feel like waiting to see the person my partner and i could create and raise is so worth it to me

Vic :

“It’s mostly spent talking about her, worrying about her” 🙄

okayykayy :

I think what it all boils down to is love language. Someone who has physical touch as their main language would have a harder time dealing with this rather than someone who has acts of service as their main language. Acts of service is my main language, so if my partner was being logistical w me and planning things for our child, that would be the more romantic to me than any kind of physical touch.

munhyaa :

idk, we're so obsessed with each other that we try to spend all our free time together. we're kinda scared we'll see our kids as a nuisance or as something that is negating us of our time together so we're not gonna have kids. I don't want to make my kids feel like outsiders just because me and my partner can't sort our shits together.

Lily❤️‍🔥😘 :

I would miss my partner so bad

WeirdMother11 :

raising my daughter with her father jas been my most beautiful amazing time in my life. its so fun to put effort into dates now and stuff. I feel so rich. I have my lows but my gratitude outshine alot of the difficult

nova :

i know we could do it :) this made me smile so much

Mel Reed-Trahan :

This is more interaction than I get with my husband without kids lol.

Im still here? :

I am relied on a lot by my parents to "help take care of my brothers" and my partner already steps up. he cooks me food when I'm busy, checks in, reminds me to breathe and steps in or try to take things off my plate already. in the midst of all of that, he still tries to make sure that I am well taken care of but this was built by heavy communication and a lot of proactive conversations of boundaries and what we need.

Key 🔑 :

Your hair is so pretty

stephys51 :

no I'll stick to my dogs and hobbies ❤️

🌸 :

I always recommend finding common interest and ideally a shared hobby so those date nights can include some kid-free convos