Kotrag🇧🇬🚩☭ 𖤓 :
I thought the same,but then with some little help I realised-we people aren't merit based creatures,or at least not all of us.People have liked me before,when I struggled even more mentally,when I was skinnier,when I was even more awkward and closed,and I know it's true for everyone that struggles with this too.You just need your people,becayse they'll like you,not your muscles,jokes or whatever else you could think of that you can improve in hopes of attracting someone.But also the most jacked person in the room may be the biggesy biggot you know,would you want to be him,or to be with the guys/girls he is?Someome could be the funniest in the room,but his jokes hurt everyone,would you want to be him or the people he hurts,that mask it as laughter?I personally wouldn't.It's hard finding my own people,but the second you lower your standarts you're going to be even more miseerable than when you're alone.I don't hqve sex with people I don't find attarctive,nothing personal to them ofc,I don't try to laugh with people who's jokes hurt others,etc,because if I do,I'll be betrying myself,and that's in my oppinion worse than death.Stay true to yourself,because you are all that you yourself have at any given point.Love yall
2026-10-10 23:19:32