And all of the avoidants become offended by this and… avoid watching 😂
2026-10-09 14:52:02
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Sam :
seriously! like i know anxious attachment isnt healthy either but i find anxious people way easier than avoidant bc the anxious person just needs confirmation and direction. i cant do anything with an avoidant person. im gonna handle the problem myself, be stuck alone in the solution and i have to pretend it was all fine so the avoidant doesnt run again.
2026-10-08 22:43:23
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Iargúil :
They aint watching all that. 😌
2026-11-08 14:28:43
0
Nhlaka_Mabaso :
can you just talk to him, please. 🥺 he's stubborn. 😭
2026-11-08 08:29:09
0
sigilgtc🫗 :
I don’t even know anymore man
2026-11-07 19:18:33
0
Shantel :
I hate him so much..
2026-11-07 01:12:42
3
331991weride :
“I need a day” and then proceeds to ignore for a week to then say “I was not ignoring”.
2026-11-08 06:14:22
0
ainnnnaaa :
Please, in HIS fyp, not mine
2026-10-09 22:49:47
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emptyvessel58 :
I'm just going to leave. it's not worth it
2026-10-08 22:33:04
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jayrothesinger :
These are facts but ain’t no point people are who they’re 💯
2026-11-07 09:32:31
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z_.889 :
Me & my bf have been together nearly 3 years and I’m still madly in love with him. We last properly spoke on 12 Sept, no argument, but he was dealing with family problems. My birthday came and he only said “hbd🎉❤️”. I asked if he was okay and said I missed us talking, but he didn’t reply. I gave him space for weeks. He still watches my stories, likes things and interacts with other people but won’t talk to me. After 3 weeks I messaged asking for an honest conversation and said I’d respect it if he needed space. Still nothing. I’m angry but also worried he might genuinely be struggling/depressed. I’m trying to move on but I can’t. He hasn’t even told me we’re over, so I’m stuck between waiting, giving him space and letting go. I still love him, miss him and worry about him, but I don’t know what to do anymore 😭💔
2026-10-09 17:01:32
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Siphesihle :
Avoidants strike me as people who weaponize the idea of space & silence to have a sense of control what I’ve come to see is that when you check out the relationship and you actually stop carrying most of the emotional weight and intimacy they panic
2026-11-05 07:05:29
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WillB🎸 :
Accountability is the scariest word to an avoidant
2026-10-28 09:24:10
7
suzannediflavio :
They do just want you to shut up. When you bring it up repeatedly.. they tell you it’s time to go your own way. Every time. Versus fix and heal.
2026-10-27 03:02:33
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Lex325a :
“YoUrE toO muCh” no bih, I’m not. I just want clarity. USE YOUR WORDS 👏🏼
2026-10-12 02:49:35
18
Nicole Marie Strean :
Why is this always on my FYP
2026-10-09 17:19:28
15
Cult Of Odd :
they gotta want to change first
2026-10-09 13:11:39
23
z_.889 :
His fyp not mine lol 😂
2026-10-09 17:00:31
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🌠🌗Chaosdemon🌛🌑🌘 :
His fyp not mine
2026-10-09 01:32:21
18
lexibythemoon :
It's a 2 way street. I'm working on my part. I just wish he would too. 15 years. I don't want to give that up. I know we can get through this. He just has to help too.
2026-10-09 17:53:25
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alyssakibbe91 :
This this this!!!!!!! He lost a good one that’s for sure
2026-10-09 01:10:21
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❧✰𝓜𝓪𝓬✰❧ :
Bro her fyp not me bruh
2026-10-09 16:53:13
6
quilseasyjoy :
how do I send this to them without sending this to them cause they will get defensive or think it's about me. . .
2026-10-09 03:49:58
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user2376875611210 :
This needs to be on Jon’s fyp
2026-10-09 04:47:26
10
Christopher :
Yes!!!!!
2026-10-09 00:22:11
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