I’m a stay at home mom. I don’t have to ask for permission to do a damn thing!! My name is on everything from our house, to our investment accounts, to our Fidelity and Morgan Stanley’s. I also meet with our financial advisor monthly with him and he even contributes to a 401(k) for me separately. i’m also his power of attorney We have no prenup. Speak up, say something. You don’t have to agree with everything he wants, marriage is 50–50.
2026-10-09 01:13:21
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Nonna Love :
I was married 30 years, had NOTHING when he left me the year I turned 50. No higher education, no marketable job skills and no credit in my name. Starting over is HARD!! Never let someone else support you fully and have no backup plan.
2026-10-09 23:11:50
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EmilyLaine :
My momma told me “never be in a position in which you can’t take care of yourself.”
2026-10-09 00:08:16
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Krystle 🩷 :
The same hand that feeds you is the same hand that can starve you! Best advice my mama ever gave was to NEVER put you’re entire dependency on a man
2026-10-09 01:41:30
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jess :
My plan is and will always be ME!!!! Love love love my plan is it’s working out great
2026-10-09 23:38:21
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Molly Whitlock :
These men leave.. have a plan ladies
2026-10-09 03:36:52
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Hayley K • MomX3 :
What kind of villains are yall marrying?? My husband would NEVERRRR let me and our children struggle if our marriage fell apart. Why would a man make his children suffer to try and spite their mother. Pick better men.
2026-10-09 01:54:13
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Pork Hunt 🥓 :
I couldn’t imagine entering a relationship while simultaneously thinking about an exit strategy. I’d rather just be single than have that type of mentality.
2026-10-09 00:42:13
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KatieRaeReads 📚 :
If my husband who pays all for everything up and left me one day I would do what any other human who lost their income would do, go get a job. People act like being SAHM who husband leaves them is a death sentence and they’re life is over. People get fired and loose their income literally all the time. You might struggle for a minute but you find a source of income figure your shit out just like any other human who lost their job would.
2026-10-09 13:07:45
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86love11 :
If he just leaves, he will have to pay alimony and child support
2026-10-09 11:23:17
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Nettles :
I’ve been a SAHM for four years. We’re not married. He controls the finances. I dont have a plan. This is all very true. I am just now starting to formulate a just in case plan after realizing this is a very real possibility for me and my children.
2026-10-09 01:10:08
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Tabitha :
I’m a stay at home mom, but only because I was able to medically retire early from the military so I get a decent paycheck every month. I would never do it without the security I have. Anything can happen.
2026-10-09 13:40:39
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Kami :
Been in those shoes and I fully relied on God and I was taken care of. Now we have measures in place.
2026-10-09 23:15:32
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Heather :
I would never put my financial fate in the hands of a man. My mother taught me that a very long time ago and it 50 years old. I’m thankful I didn’t.
2026-10-09 15:44:39
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Hannah🫶🏻 :
She coulda stopped at ‘the scariest thing is being a stay at home mom’
2026-10-09 12:18:21
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Captain Wilson's Way.. :
the scariest thing is man leeching off you as single mother threatening you and your children in your own home and law does nothing
2026-10-09 23:09:56
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Nichole :
All these woman saying “my husband would never” I thought the same after 12 years he did
2026-10-09 19:36:11
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clipperofhorror :
If you make sure your name is on everything you guys own, including the credit card. You don’t have to worry about your exit plan.
2026-10-09 01:58:16
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MC :
if they feed you they can starve you. personal experience
2026-10-09 09:25:24
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AAA :
I don't know what she's talking about because those were the best years of my life being a stay-at-home mom...
2026-10-09 10:51:15
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Brandee Newton :
I will die on this hill. You need to always be able to take care of yourself and or your kids. I preached this to my daughter & thankful she listened. High School, Degree, Job, Husband, Child, but you better be sure if your alone you can continue your life right on. There is no way in hell I will be at the mercy of a man with my future.
2026-10-09 02:45:38
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Sabrina A :
I was a stay at home mom. My husband took his life in 2026 and I had no plan. I have been blessed to rebuild
2026-10-09 00:09:04
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HighCountryLife828❌ :
That’s still just insane to me to think people put themselves in that position still today…smh
2026-10-09 00:19:55
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S.S. 📚🐶 :
As a sahm for last 8 year that is my constant worry what if he dies or leaves. How will I survive. As a former Montessori teacher I’m filling the work gap by doing before and after care until I can go back full time. But doing soenthigg Ng for you ladies so important. Whatever that maybe par time even.
2026-10-09 13:44:04
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