@huntercolier: You want her. God wants one thing first. You keep asking Him for the result. He keeps bringing you back to the same place. That's not an accident. "One who is faithful in a very little is also faithful in much." (Luke 16:10) He's watching how you move when nothing's moving. The one thing is your yes. Not to her. To the season. "Count it all joy, my brothers, when you meet trials of various kinds, for you know that the testing of your faith produces steadfastness." (James 1:2-3) This season isn't asking you to find the woman God has for your future. It's asking you to find you. Not the self you invent. The one He made (Ephesians 2:10). And the man who finds who God made him to be is the man He adds her to. This isn't earning her. It's becoming someone she could be added to. If marriage is His plan for you, that man is the one she meets. Stop looking for her. Find you. Follow to become the man God's calling you to be.