@stevenmilano: It was never your effort that woke him up. It was your absence. Do you know what he'll do once he finally sees it? Avoidant Exposed🪞 Linked on my profile.
can we talk about avoidants that actually heal and be intentional ..
2026-10-09 05:20:50
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❤️You.know.who❤️GEN-❌️ :
hearing this stuff now makes me so happy I finally broke free from all of it what ever it was!! 🥰 happily single for the rest of my days!!😁🥰😜
2026-10-09 10:38:04
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Mamdaddy :
I ended it with him 4 months ago. When we got back together, he said he wasn’t sad I had ended it. He was busy with a roster. He didn’t care. Shattered my heart & soul. I can’t recover from him not caring about me in those 4 months after 1.5 yrs
2026-10-09 04:37:03
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Tamara Meijer :
He is on dating apps now and found out there are a lot of shady woman there. 🤷🏻♀️🤷🏻♀️🤷🏻♀️It’s not my job to protect him. In a way it’s sad. He is 80.
2026-10-09 09:12:42
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Nives :
i was rude to him but honest ..avoidant ..he dont like arguing and he left..when I stop text he text smal ..i said stop texting me im not option and he stop. but i love him 😡😓😓
2026-10-09 04:24:16
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Megan :
Avoidants fear shame, emotionally intensity and conflict. They will never miss you nor will they reconnect because that means returning to that shame. They’ve suppressed that attachment to you indefinitely. They will move on, maybe potentially things might be different if you had a very long relationship
2026-10-09 07:35:24
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melissaredhead1994 :
100% true! Married 32 years in November- at 25 years I was exhausted mentally and physically I was going through loss and menopause after a major surgery! Long story short I felt alone sitting beside him because I needed to slow down our lifestyle but he kept the same pace…. I up and left everything- kids grown and he was not hearing me! I still talked at first but his actions weren’t matching. Went no contact - completely we filed after 2 months paid lawyers served papers and nothing for 3 months- Covid hit I was 8 hrs away. I called him after 6 months asking him to finally sign the papers but talked all night he drove to me begging to reconsider the divorce I gave him conditions stuck to my boundaries and worked on myself too happiest we’ve ever been and feel like best friends! I only threatened one time 2nd I left 3 rd silence. He was left to himself 🥰
2026-10-09 05:09:57
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Praewvie Tansika :
What if he told me to move on, I told him I can’t promise that and said that I still want to hear from him whenever he feels like talking and then I don’t text him again?
2026-10-09 04:14:00
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Lisa1503 ❤️💙❤️💙🦅 :
It's too hard work everytime we have a fun great conversation the next day door slam in my face ... take care etc
2026-10-09 07:04:52
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Boricua❤️Phoenix :
💯💯
2026-10-09 05:06:16
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beefsukiyaki :
what you just said was all real! louder bruh! 😍😍
2026-10-09 03:06:58
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carrieandmaple :
Our situation/timeline exactly. They aren’t too bright.
2026-10-09 05:41:56
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Saint Sunless :
Trust he will never care
2026-10-09 08:04:00
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MamaB :
He’ll miss me when I’m gone, I wanted him to miss me when I was here…because once I’m gone the family has already imploded
2026-10-09 10:56:25
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mozzarella_sticks_bruh :
STOP CONFLATING GENDER WITH AVOIDANT BEHAVIOUR. USE THEY/THEM. IT’S NOT FUCKING DIFFICULT.
2026-10-09 10:20:37
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