@heartfirst_philosophy: A central paradox of courtly love was that total, immediate gratification often ruined the purity of the feeling. The troubadours valued desire itself as a transformative force. In other words, and for this modern era, give your love space. Let them have their interests and ambitions, be an addition to that life, as they should be for you. There is the bloom of love where we cannot get enough of our love, but we should incorporate each other in our lives, not dominate their calendar and every waking moment.

Thorn, Heart-First Philosopher

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Friday 09 October 2026 04:34:38 GMT