@alanisjelle: Sometimes, the moment you start standing up for yourself, people who once benefited from your silence begin to see you differently. But being a good mother doesn’t mean losing yourself just to keep someone else comfortable. I can love my children with everything I have and still choose to protect my peace.
Hello po. I’m not sure if this comment would help you feel better, but I hope you’ll hear me out.
I’m a child of a broken family, and honestly, there were times when I wished my mom had chosen to leave sooner. Every time my parents fought, I found myself resenting them for continuing to choose to stay together despite everything. I kept thinking that my mom deserved a better man.
My dad is a good father, but he wasn’t a good husband to my mom. And growing up, I realized that those two things can exist at the same time.
That’s why I hope you won’t feel like you have to stay in a relationship that hurts you just because you want to do what’s best for your child. Sometimes, children need to see their parents happy and at peace, even if that means growing up in separate homes.
I hope you find the courage to choose yourself, too. You deserve happiness, peace, and a love that doesn’t constantly hurt you. ❤️🩹
2026-10-17 14:45:33
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lovekarlota :
there are times where I yearn and think about what if I didn't lose my child what life could have looked like then I realize how the father of my child literally cheated the whole time with his co worker makes me think maybe God saw and saved me for what could have been a miserable life for me and my child
2026-10-17 16:35:19
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Janine🪬 :
That's so sad and painful to hear/read. I hope you heal sis ☹️
2026-10-17 12:08:38
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🔄 :
Ganyan naman sila sis, ikaw pa masama if nag react ka sa betryal 🥺
2026-10-09 10:14:02
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Ey-ba👸 :
@Ey-ba👸: Kayo pa rin nang taong who call you bad mom sis? Kasi ako 10 fucking years kami pa rin nang taong tinatawag akong YAWA when he’s mad. I stay because of our kids. He’s a good provider tho but not a good fucking partner
2026-10-15 15:39:10
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Pamela :
We hate you Bon!👿😡
2026-10-09 05:52:16
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kinangina :
me rn . kalaban na tingin sayo pag hindi kana mauto HAHAHA
2026-10-17 08:20:01
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twixiiiiie :
hugggs mommy!🫂🫂🫂
2026-10-09 10:06:18
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icedwhitechocolatemocha :
I know that feeling. This is so sad kasi alam mo sa sarili mong wala kang magagawa and ang kailangan mo lang ay mag move forward sa life. Kahit gaano mo kaayaw doon sa tatay ng anak mo because of what he did to you. May anak ka ng kailangan alagaan at isipin.
2026-10-15 06:02:36
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Shiela & Dave Mujar 🇮🇹 🧺 :
gigil sa mga ganyang tao ay
2026-10-16 04:55:09
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..... :
Sabi nya ang malas daw ng anak ko kasi ako ang nanay. Sabi nya. Sya, na 4 months pa lang akong buntis sa anak nya e iniwan at pinag palit na kami sa single mom din. Sya. Na ever since hindi nagpa kita, hindi nagsustento sa anak nyang 5 years old na ngayon at pinaghihirapan kong buhayin at palakihin ng maayos.
2026-10-17 08:59:27
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kringkingking :
pag di kana mamanipulate ikaw na agad ang villain sa paningin. sana makaalis na ako sa sitwasyon na ganyan din. My child needs a healthy-minded mom.
2026-10-17 16:28:32
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sixseben :
leave, ate. if kayang kaya umalis, huwag mag settle
2026-10-17 17:14:53
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️ :
as someone from broken family, mas okay pong lumaki sa masayang kayo lng ng anak mo kesa lumaking nasa buong pamilya pero may trauma dahil sa mga magulang na laging may away
2026-10-12 04:24:08
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Farah ✨👸🏻 :
nakakarelate talaga ko sa lahat ng post mo mi hugs satin 😭
2026-10-12 02:21:50
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Sola🍀 :
During postpartum we are trying to hold it all together and that one comment will only gonna make our mind think the worst thing about ourself.
2026-10-09 16:26:33
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Paris Pearl :
Mi sana maging masaya ka sa life na ito. Mahirap kapag may anak na. Mahirap kapag marami kang trauma. Kayanin natin ang pagsubok
2026-10-09 07:28:25
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Rhea Bernas Supillo :
Been there, sa una lng yan mahirap after ng mga kamalasan na yan saka mo makikita ang pgpapala at panoorin mong bumagsak yang manloloko na yaan[Snicker]
2026-10-09 08:40:03
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^ :
kaya mah mag plano kayo paano kayo makakaalis kahit hindi agad agad basta may plano ka na at handa at buo mo to gagawin na hindi nya ineexpect
2026-10-17 09:18:44
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ᴍ :
ako na sinabihan Ng walang kwentang ina !
2026-10-12 17:43:48
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⋆. 𐙚˚࿔banana𝜗𝜚˚⋆ :
Makaka alis na ako and never come back:)
2026-10-17 17:47:04
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@it's _ Tinzz :
Hindi na Ako Yung dating Ako 😐
2026-10-16 03:30:48
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Krstn👸🏻 :
Kayo pa rin po?
2026-10-14 04:08:28
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🎀StrawberryVanilla🎀 :
Okay lang yan nagstay kapa rin naman
2026-10-17 15:38:02
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bedchem :
men wants someone a fool.
2026-10-17 12:10:54
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