Shirley | Narcissistic Clarity
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Friday 09 October 2026 14:05:00 GMT
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Deborah Marie :
I didn’t know until separated and God showed me
2026-10-09 22:50:44
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Kei :
I went through the same thing! And my children too!
2026-10-10 02:26:02
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Voyager111 :
Surviver here. It is a really hard pill to swallow when u figure out that people don’t care
2026-10-10 01:38:30
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❌️Bridgette❌️ :
yeah me too 24.
2026-10-10 02:55:21
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Shirley | Narcissistic Clarity :
You can spend years saying, “At least they don’t hit me,” while feeling alone, walking on eggshells, and being afraid to speak up. Sometimes you don’t realize how much you’ve been swallowing until you’re finally out of it. 💜
2026-10-09 17:18:15
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Farim :
Same 26 years but I always felt guilty
2026-10-09 23:32:17
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FBMAC1 :
Same here sis!!!
2026-10-09 23:33:20
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Donnielle Mondello :
I was married to a narcissist for 13, together for 17, I didn’t know I was being abused until the end when it got really bad. I tried to explain this to someone today and was told there’s no way you could be in a relationship with someone who is abusing you and not know it is abuse.
2026-10-10 02:34:03
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Karen Gingerich :
I was treated for depression for almost the entire 25y of my marriage. The first counseling session I went to after I left, he told me that he didn’t think that I was depressed so much as oppressed. That started my now 10y long journey into narcissism. I am finally coming out of fight or flight and am seeing some big changes in my mood and my chronic pain and chronic fatigue.
2026-10-10 01:12:01
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Flora :
I’ve been thru what you are talking about. It takes time but you will be ok. The hard part is coming to terms with finally figuring out that they are lying, faking cheaters who only care about themselves at the expense of the people who love them.
2026-10-10 00:52:21
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I Am One :
30 years. Vulnerable Covert Narc. I did not realize. I spent over a decade isolated. A therapist had to tell me I was being abused as well, while still in my marriage. It really messes with your ability to trust yourself.
2026-10-09 14:10:14
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Lyric crank it up 217 :
Sending love and light sweetheart 💕
2026-10-10 01:09:57
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peaceisfoundwithin :
True. The ones who care the least are the ones who are the closest to you, such as family and friends. When you are able and available for everyone around you, they are all in. When it’s your turn to be broken, you will be alone. Very hard pill to swallow.
2026-10-10 00:56:13
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ddizzylizzy :
Is there more of her story or does she have an @? 🙏🏼
2026-10-09 22:54:54
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Wendy Dibble-Jock :
14 years with a Narc. I was away from him for a month before I realized it was abuse. For me it was being in survival mode and my horrible coping skills
2026-10-10 01:11:31
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girlfriend1237826 :
Thanks for saying this…..I didn’t think I was a victim either…..46 years…..I felt sorry for him because of his family’s disfunction. It makes you stronger but the stress and loneliness will break you down.
2026-10-10 00:12:17
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HT :
Same here, 25 years until his demise. I had no idea I was in abusive manipulation the whole time until I was out of the scheme.
2026-10-09 21:25:57
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Shirdell :
I can completely relate sis. I learned after I left that I'd been abused and that I had PTSD.
2026-10-09 23:09:38
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Natasha Big Eagle Richard :
They don't care because they do not understand.❤️❤️❤️
2026-10-09 20:14:50
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jana :
I’m so proud of you your a warrior it’s been 2.5 yrs fir me hardest thing in my life considering I have 17 years sober as well
2026-10-10 01:00:05
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Deborah Smith :
Omg yes me too. I left a 40 year marriage and the first few years after I left I started to connect the dots that I was, have been being abused. Light bulb moment. The cptsd was recognized as coming from that abuse. The gaslighting, the your crazy u need therapy, I thought I was crazy. Gone 7 years no contact and healing. Peace at last.
2026-10-09 22:50:09
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Brandy M Roderick :
I had a similar experience. when my therapist explained narcissistic abuse amd manipulation I was in shock.
2026-10-10 02:04:05
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janetlord :
31 years here!
2026-10-10 02:22:15
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Love of a Mother :
Same here.
2026-10-10 03:02:51
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Cecilia Maysonet :
Me too,but he never married me though
2026-10-10 02:48:56
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