@eccusa: The coercive controller enforces the rules against you and exempts themselves. They check your phone and keep their own face down, and the rules move whenever the old ones stop being useful. You didn't fail to keep up. The standard was never meant to be met. Entrapped: Detecting Coercive Control with The Quicksand Model®, by Kate Amber, MSc. Coming soon. #CoerciveControl #QuicksandModel #Entrapped #EndCoerciveControlUSA #MakingTheInvisibleVisible