@mrsbwiley: THE ART OF BEING DANGEROUSLY SELFISH. For the mom who forgets she exists ... RULE NO. 01 — BECOME A WOMAN WHO KEEPS HER OWN PROMISES. Not just when the day goes perfectly. Especially when it doesn’t. Adjust the promise if you need to, but stop abandoning yourself every time life gets busy. RULE NO. 02 — STOP SURVIVING ON EVERYONE ELSE’S LEFTOVERS. Make yourself a beautiful breakfast. Sit down for lunch. Use the good dishes. You are not the least important person at your own table. RULE NO. 03 — MAKE YOURSELF IMPOSSIBLE TO CANCEL ON. The appointment. The workout. The hour that’s just yours. Stop treating commitments to yourself like they’re optional while everyone else’s are sacred. RULE NO. 04 — BE UNREASONABLY PARTICULAR ABOUT YOUR PLEASURE. The coffee cup. The fresh flowers. The linen sheets. The music while you cook. Stop apologizing for caring about the little things that make life feel exquisite. RULE NO. 05 — LET THEM WAIT FIVE MINUTES. Finish your skincare. Eat your breakfast while it’s warm. Take the shower. Not every request needs to become your emergency. RULE NO. 06 — STOP ASKING PERMISSION TO WANT MORE. The trip. The beautiful wardrobe. The experience you’ve been dreaming about. You can love the life you have and still desire more from it. RULE NO. 07 — BE THE OCCASION. Wear the dress. Put on the perfume. Do your hair. Stop waiting for somewhere special to go. You’re allowed to look beautiful for an ordinary Tuesday. And if all of that makes you dangerously selfish? Darling, perhaps it’s about time. Save this for the next time you catch yourself waiting for your turn. #beautyrituals #luxurylifestyle #romanticizinglife #motherhood #fashion
These are all great pieces of advice! I remember one time I had bought peaches at the store and my kids were napping and I actually felt like I had to give myself permission to have one because they were “for the kids”. But I like peaches too! It was a life changing revelation that I’m a person who deserves nice things too. Now I prioritize me as well!
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✮mommafisha✮ :
Thank you for this mama 🤎
2026-10-09 22:50:09
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Laura | Life in Progress :
I love this. Thanks for the reminder ❤️
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Arica Johnson :
Rule no 5. Yes! If I sit down to eat a sandwich or breakfast or something and they come up and want some too. Or want something. I’ve started making them wait until I’m done. I can have my five minutes.
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Amy Louise :
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